A Litte About Me I'm most definantly not a morning person - much more of a night owl. My best qualities would have to be that I am loyal, compassionate, sensitive, and have a big heart. I love to laugh. I'm not big on the whole bar scene / party type atmosphere, but every once in a while it's fun. I'd much more prefer a small group of close friends. I am also a very perceptive/feeling person - which sometimes is great, and other times it is a talent that I wish I didn't have. I probably could have been a psychologist, as I find all that type of stuff quite facinating. I am doing a lot of self-examination, and finding it quite facinating as I learn more about myself. Of course, the purpose of that is to help me continue to grow and better myself. And although it drives me nuts, I love suprises. I'm kind of a homebody (as I'm quite content to sit at home watching tv or being with those I love) - but that doesn't mean I don't like to get out and do something fun or adventurous. Also, I value honesty and respect above all else and will not tolerate anything less. I also give the same in return. And when I say honesty, I'm talking about the kind of honesty where you don't keep it to yourself, even if it might hurt the other person in the short term. Personally, I'd rather have a friend who would hurt me and be honest rather than someone who is just going to act is if there isn't a problem. I know who I am (for the most part), and I've found that I am a very special and unique individual who has a whole lot to offer the right person. I also know that I'm probably a lot different than most guys out there - but to find that out you'll just have to get to know me. I think it'll be worth your while no matter what happens. I am a Christian, and consider my spiritual life very important to me. Mind you, I'm not one to push my religion on anyone - as it was done to me as a child, and I resented that. And I don't see myself as one of those holier than thou types of people either. Ultimately we are all responsible for ourselves and the life we lead. And thankfully, God is forgiving and mercyfull... for as it is written, we have all fallen short... and I am no exception. I have made mistakes, sometimes several times with the same one - but I do try to better myself and learn from the experience. Just sometimes it takes a hammer to pound it in to me before I get it. :) Interests & More Career I'm a web application programmer for the federal government who does a lot of work with databases. I've been employeed with the Carderock Division / Naval Surface Warfare Center since January 1990. I am also just a tad biased when it comes to computers... I'm a Mac geek (I avoid Microsoft whenever possible). I am lucky enough to have found a job that I not only enjoy but one that brings a lot of satisfaction to my life. General Computers & the Internet, Vintage Video Games (Ms. Pac Man, Galaga, Asteroids, etc), radio talk shows (Howard Stern, Don & Mike), The Peanuts (Woodstock, Snoopy), Dallas Cowboys, Camping/Hiking, Pizza & Seafood. Music Primarily 80's rock/metal, but love most kinds of music. Least favorites are country, classical, and elevator music. Find that I just love music - it is a way that I can kind of express my emotions which otherwise might be hard to put into words. And my favorite groups are those who really have meaninfull lyrics as well... for instance: James McMurtry, Arlo Guthrie, Dokken, Savatage. And I absolutely love live music (concerts), be it at a small nightclub/bar or a huge venue (love Wolftrap Farm Park). Movies Army of Darkness, Howard Stern's Private Parts, Office Space, The Notebook, What Dreams May Come, Blade, Underworld, Animal House, Fast Times at Ridgemont High, The Toxic Avenger. Television Reality show junkie. Survivor, Biggest Loser, Celebrity Fit Club, American Idol, Big Brother, Lost, Stargate SG1 & Atlantis, House, The 4400, The Office, Scrubs, Mind of Mencia, South Park, Aqua Teen Hungerforce, Nick at Night, The Simpsons.