I received this note and i appreciate it because it made me think...

Here's a scenario to ponder. Say tomorrow you divorce your wife because you're unhappy with the sex and the next day something happened that completely paralyzed you from below the waist. Isn't there some sort of comfort in knowing that a wife is there for more than just the sex? What if sex was taken away? But you never know, if sex was taken away and there wasn't more than kids and the hassle keeping you around then maybe you shouldn't be in the marriage.

I'm just curious, I'm not trying to belittle or anything like that.

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I agree that a wife is for more than just sex, I think in our marriage it has become such a focal point because if the sexual differences.  I think if something was to happen to me where I could not have sex and we didnt have kids, we would probably break up.  I dont see us having a lot of connection in many areas.  Our communication is poor, shes not very affectionate and I honestly think we are just two totally different people.  We do have a few things in common but Im not sure if its anythng significant.  Its sad and it saddens me sometimes, pisses me off other times and completely frustates me most of the time.

Back to work.