I learned today that one of my friends is getting divorced.  I was in shock.  I usually am not suprised when people get divorced but this suprised me.  I thought if anyone that I knew was going to make it, it would have been them.  They had been trough so much in the 12 years that I have known them, and things just started looking really good for them, and now this.  I hate the fact that I am so far away and cant be there for her.  She is one of the nicest people that I know, she has an amazing heart and is just a great person.  He too is a good guy.  I love them both to death, and I am just in ahhhhh. It makes me wonder if anyone can truly be happy and have it all.  She like me, hoped for the picket fence, the kids, and the amazing life.  It came from out of the blue, they had no problems and they got along great.  It is scary that, that fast your life can be flipped upside down.  I reall hope that they will all be alright.  I know they are both very stong people but I worry about them.  These just goes to show you that even when you think you have everything, it can slip away.  That to me is a very scary thing.  There are no sure things in life and that is what is so scary, to me if they cant make it work what makes me think that I can every find love and make it work?  I am in shock and i really wish there was more I could do for them.  Life its so confusing...