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well, i'm recently going out with a 15 yr. old guy. He always says he loves me, but i'm not sure if I love him back. I mean I'M 13! How can I really love someone? But I say it back anyway (as to not complicate the relationship) and i kinda feel bad about it. I'm thinking if i should dump him, but I really want to stay friends with him and his friends. But c'mon, lets face it, no one EVER stays friends with their ex, not to mention his friends. And really, how much does the chance come to date a hot (skaterrr) who's like almost 3 years older then you? Practicaly never right?! My friends are really happy for me, but my guy friends all tell me he's a jerk and that I should dump him. And I don't necessarily know if he is a jerk or not because he goes to a different school in the next town over. I feel kinda shallow that I tell him I love him when I don't and that I really don't even like-like him. I'm basically just not dumping him cuz i don't know when i'll be able to get another bf and i don't want to be lonely. I love the way he always says I love you. And I don't want to lose that, but I also don't want it to be a lie. And I don't want to be another physcotic girl who's pining for a guy she's never going to have. I'm just so confused if I ask someone what I should do, everyones just so opinionated they'll only tell me to dump him i f they hate him or to keep him if they think he's hot. I know they want whats best for me, but no ones really telling me an answer that will really help me. And I didnt ask all of my friends, cuz i dont want the word to get around and have him find out, hate me, and then dump me. I honestly don't know what i'm gonna do....
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hey, you dont know me but yeah anyways i think you should talk to him about it. i know you are trying not to have it get around to him, but sooner or later, it will get around to him... so i think you should tell him how you feel maybe even have him read your entry here. i think it might help him not to think that you are going behind his back and telling people you are going to dump him.good luck [nataliejluv00816]
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1/24/2007 4:14:22 PM
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If you are not happy, then you know what to do. Its not fair to yourself to care about the situation more than your feelings. Its admirable, but not realistic. good luck [the misery chick]
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1/24/2007 4:17:47 PM
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You are 13, you have plenty of time to worry about love. I love you really is meaningless at that age. It all comes down to if you enjoy where you are at with him, continue going out. If you feel badly about it, leave. Either way, you get what you want and deserve. Good luck :) [thats whats up]
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1/24/2007 5:09:45 PM
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