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I realized that I forgot to mention that I had no clue Aaron had been married before. He also failed to mention that he had a child with this same women... that happens to be three years old.
After he told me about the ex-wife deal, I thought to myself exactly what I had said earlier (WHAT THE FUCK WHAT THE FUCKWHAT THE FUCK WHAT THE FUCK WHAT THE FUCK WHAT THE FUCK). Sorry if that offends you, but honestly, how else do you respond to this? I've known the man for a long time but he some how failed to tell me about his other family. So I talked to him about her and his child and he told me they had only been married for a year and a half, which, by the way, ended less than a year ago (go figure). I thought maybe I could get over this, so I tried as hard as I could.
His ex-wife, Lillian, drove all the way from Chicago just to pick him up. This takes some dedication and -dare I say it-love. Just think about it. I don't think I would honestly do it, even if he was my HUSBAND. I remembered a couple months before, he told me he still has feelings for his wife. Yeah, this pissed me off... and I made sure he knew it. Oh, but he was "just kidding." Yeah, bullshit.
Lillian decided she wanted to meet me. Apparently, Aaron had told her all about me and some other bullshit. To be honest, I was actually kind of excited to meet her and his child. I mean, even if he did go back to her, I could still be his friend, right?
This is why I hate being a girl. Girls always have this thought in their mind that they can A) change a man, B) stay friends, and C) he'll mature soon. HA! Big mistake. You see, I'm not stupid. I honestly was raised by boys, so I know all about their simplicity and ignorance. And if you're a man reading this, I want to apologize if I'm offending you. I'm not trying to show men in a bad light, only idiotic ones. I'm also trying to teach you women who think the ABC's majority of the time.
Girls, if he's a dick to you, leave him. He obviously doesn't want to be around you. Oh, and if he kicks you out of your house, says he doesn't want you or your kids around, he means it.
My family was friends with another family who eventually divorced because that's what happens when two idiots marry. They had all boys, so this pretty much adds to me being raised by boys. They split up when I was 5 or 6, which was really depressing. We'd always go over to their house and have fun. I'd play with the boys and carry on. When they split up, the man quickly remarried to a COMPLETE bitch. She had cheated on him and had her ex husband's child, basically kicked the boys out, and just treated everyone like dirt. Tammy, his ex-wife, dated this complete asshole. Seriously, this guy is straight up douche-bag material. He proceeded to tell her he wasn't looking for this sort of relationship and he didn't want kids... at all. She could not let the poor man go. Desperate women are ridiculous.
TO BE CONTINUED!...