So getting rid of my cheating husband was one step to finding "Me".

2nd Step - Thanking God and Counting My Blessings

Now at the end of the day...after indulging in some religious activities I realized how ungrateful I am. All I've been thinking about is what I want. Stressing my mind out about all the things I want and how I am going to get it.  I mean really really getting headaches thinking about all the things that I think I need in this life to be successful.

How stupid of me? Am I really serious? I am already successful enough. I might not be rich or wealthy. But God has surely given me all the basic necessities that I need in life. So it's time for me to stop complaining. I have to thank God for all the things that I have and if God chooses to give me more then I will still be most gracious.

I will still try to attain certain goals, but I will not stress myself out about it and I will continue to always thank God for what I already have.

3rd Step - Trust in God

I've also been reminded that I need to trust in God and God alone. If I trust in him I will not fail.