So this morning the baby and I were feeling better, I'm no contagious and neither is he, although he does still have a little cough. We don't really have anything to do today and were wondering what we were going to do. The original plan was that Becky and Trevor were going to come over here so they could do their fireworks but I said no way because we have a tiny house and one room to entertain in, with just a tv and no real place to just hang out, I wouldn't mind if they were the kind of people who could deal with that but Trevor likes his toys and Becky likes to have her space. So, Brian was bummed because we didn't have any plans and so since the baby and I are not contagious and Becky and Trevor are supposed to be our friends, family as they say, I thought it would be cool for Brian to see what was up, as they asked us to come over a few days before. So Brian texted Trevor to see what was up and Becky called us and then started telling Brian she didn't "want any sick people at her house." I got pissed because Brian sounded like a little kid talking to mean kids, you know how a when a little kid wants to play with other kids but they are mean to him and he is like begging to be accepted into the group? Well that is what Brian sounded like and I got upset. First of all I would never take my kids or myself around other people if we were contagious, that is just wrong. Second, how fucking rude to call and say you don't want us around if we are sick, assuming that I am such a fucking desperate for your friendship person that I would put myself, my kids and other people at risk of getting sicker or if getting others sick. I know how Becky is, if we went over there every sniffle, sneeze or cough she would bitch and say if she gets sick because of us.... and she would tell every guest there that we were sick but its okay because we say we aren't contagious but if they get sick its our fault. I know how Becky is, I have seen her do this to others and now here she calling saying she doesn't want us at her house if we are sick. Wow. Okay, so I put my foot down, no way in hell that we are going over there. I told Brian he could go alone if he wanted but I would not put my kids or myself through her verbal bull shit. Not to mention she is going to be drinking and the women that flirt with her husband will be there and eventually she will get drunk enough to start a fight with her husband call him names, talk shit to the other women and bitch to me about how "Trevor is such a loser, he is so stupid, she hates that he is such a fucking stupid asshole." And much more. Why would I want to be subjected to that, why would I allow my kids to be subjected to that. Brian doesn't see it my way, he is desperate to play with Trevor, all they do is drink and the other guy B.S. is full of b.s. he tries to engage me in arguments about Obama about God and anything else he can think of. I don't listen to him or engage in his political or religious conversations because much of what he says is bull shit and he can't back up anything he says and his response to most everything is "Trevor is gay""trevor has a small tool" and what ever other homosexual inuendo he can make about Trevor. Intelligent conversation with that man is impossible. His wife is a normal person, I can't figure out why she is with him. Then his sister, well she is this dried up old hippie that used to be a beach girl, she thinks just because she was prom queen back in the 60s that she still is hot. She has dried frizzy blond hair over tan old skin a front butt and skinny legs, but she will strut her damn near 55 year old ass around like she is hot and flirts with Trevor and is usually the major topic of arguments between Becky and Trevor. When its our family and some of their family and them its usually a nice mellow time but when the other BS family is there its eventually gets ugly. Just tbe fact that Becky called and got all rude on the phone tells me Becky will be starting her drama eventually and I don't want to be a part of that. My husband can deal with that if he wants, no thank you.