Comeon’ Girls!!


CAN’T HOLD US DOWN (Christina Aguilera)

 

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Ok so I signed on Open Diary and the first thing I did was click on Random..and I do that all the time. But I found a common theme.. Girls saying stuff like.

* I don’t know why he does that*

* I let him, even though I didnt want to*

* He called me a bitch because I told him the truth*

* I stroke his ego too much*

Ok so here is my deal with all of this .

COME ON GIRLS.What makes those boys have such power in your life. WHY DO YOU LET THEM!!!!

Get a grip…seriously. I mean yeah I love boys/guys, But if a boy tried to control me like that I would kick  his arse out the door. You are woman..You have power. We are not helpless defenseless females. Why must  some of us girls act like that? Comeon. HOld your ground. Fight for yourself, if you don’t who will.  I Love myself, I don’t comprimise who I am for a boy. And I really really hope that other women don’t but when I go on random and see entries like that it makes me sad.. And I am sure this entry will piss some folks off. In fact I am sure some MEn will think BITCh right when they think it but gimme time..and I will get to that sort of boy too.

You see I get called a bitch alot. ALot. and along time ago I was called a whore alot. BUt here is the deal. I firmly believe that if a guy wants to flirt with two different girls and date them all is okay and If a girl does it she is a bitch and a whore.

All I gotta say is to those boys * Your such a little boy..so cute..so coy..You must act so big to make up for smaller things*

So This is my beef with that sort of boy..I have dated those kinda boys. They aren’t dating you because they love you girls. They are dating you because they want something weaker then them to control. Yeah..That is fucked up. But It is true and they will keep acting that way. They won’t listen to what you say and they will continue to act that way.

Call me a bitch all you want. I say kick him to the curb and honey..If you keep him after…Eh it is your problem. I think if you keep him after he does all that crap to you maybe you secretly like to be controlled. But Girls are strong..They are not the weaker species..Or at least..I AM NOT.

ANd now for you boys like that out there. Why must you act so big.So controlling..Why is it such an issue to love her without trying to own her.

Good grief. I hate how we are in the 21st century and some of these boys/ girls act all 1950’s on us.

and if you wanna know the lyrics to the song:

So-What am I not s’pposed to have an opinion
Should I keep quiet just because I’m a woman
Call me a bitch ’cause I speak what’s on my mind
Guess it’s easier for you to swallow if I sat and smiled

When a female fires back suddenly big talker don’t know how to act
So he does what every little boy would do
Makin’ up a few false rumors or two
That for sure is not a man to me, slanderin’ names for popularity
It’s sad you only get your fame through controversy
But now it’s time for me to come and give you more to say

Chorus:
This is for my girls all around the world
Who’ve come across a man that don’t respect your worth
Thinkin’ all woman should be seen not heard
So what do we do girls, shout out loud
Lettin’ ’em know we’re gonna stand our ground
So lift your hands higher and wave ’em proud
Take a deep breath and say it loud
Never can, never will
Can’t hold us down

Nobody can hold us down
Nobody can hold us down
Nobody can hold us down
Never can never will

So- What am I not s’pposed to say what I’m saying
Are you offended with the message I’m bringin’
Call me whatever ’cause your words don’t mean a thing
Guess you ain’t even a man enough to handle what I sing
If you look back in history, it’s a common double standard of society
The guy gets all the glory the more he can score
While the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore
I don’t understand why it’s OK
The guy can get away with it, the girl gets named
All my ladies come together and make a change
And start a new beginning for us, everybody sing

Chorus

Lil Kim:

Now, here is something I just cant understand
If the guy have three girls then hes the man
He can even give her some head or sex her off
But if a girl can do the same then shes a whore
But the tables about to turn, I bet my fame on it
Cats take my ideas, they put they name on it
Its aight though, you cant hold me down
I got to keep on movin
To my girls to their man who be tryin to mac
Do it right back to him and let that be that
You need to let him know that his game is mac
And Lil Kim and Christina got your back

You’re just a little boy
Think you’re so cute, so coy
You must talk so big to make up for smaller things
You’re just a little boy
All you do is annoy
You must talk so big to make up for smaller things

Chorus x2

Uh, oh oh
uh,uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, cant hold us down

 

Come on girls repeat after me:

I am a strong woman. I dont need this bull shit.

 You can do it;)

Tiamo mi amigos y amigas y mi amore,

Siarai

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May 2, 2006

🙂 Voice of experience?! LOL its refreshing!

I find all girls are different and all boys are different. For instance, Deb and Louise are total opposites. I keep wondering – what does Tiamo mean?

I understood what you were saying. I just didn’t see it as gender specific. Girls can control boys too. Thanks for translating Tiamo.

May 2, 2006

I understand all that.

May 2, 2006

Thanks 🙂 Awesome song…. gotta love Christina 🙂

May 2, 2006

Yea, you’re right. Interesting rant. Sounds like you’ve written this from personal experience. Oh well. you’re smarter because of it right? TTYL.

I love this song…by the way. I agree with you. It is extremely sad to see girls/women put up with an abusive (physically or mentally) significant other. I’ve seen it way too much. BUT…I do like my man to be the more dominant one. I’m kind of partial to those 1950’s values and all…it’s the way it was done with my parents and their parents and so on. BUT I would never allow him to call…

me a bitch or any such thing. But then again some men/boys seek out stronger more dominant women to. I think it’s a personality trait or something. I dont know. I hope you have a good day though.