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• Thirty (one), flirty, and thriving

  February 5, 2022

  Wow.  Has it really been 8 years?  I can't believe this is back. I literally just came across this by pure chance.  I'm a little speechless.   8 years ago, I was dating Chris, I had 2 kids, I think I was still in community college.. a lot has changed.   So I'm 31 now. …

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• That’s a wrap.

  January 26, 2014

             I've been writing here for 8 years.  I've fallen in and out of love on here.  I came out on here. I've had children while i was here. I've grown up while i was here.  I met some of my best friends while I was here.. and i stayed close…

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• I figured it was about time I did this..

  July 13, 2013

  So.  We've been busy.  I don't even know where to begin or where I"ve left off.  My daughter came home from a visit from her fathers with burns on her crotch in mid may. He has not had contact with her since, she's in therapy, and she's reverting to a much younger version of h...

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• procrastination

  April 28, 2013

         I have an interview on wednesday for a boys home.  I'm really excited.  They're non-profit, which means a little paycheck, but I think the work will be rewarding.  plus, a little paycheck is better than not having a paycheck, right?  There's apparent...

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• 04/27/2013

  April 26, 2013

    Chris was telling me a story, and he told me  he thought "that wasn't smart t-bear"  I asked him about it and apparently he has a nickname of Tasha-bear or T-bear for me that he hasn't told me about until now.  I found it cute and I've been thinkng about it randoml...

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• kool-aid & in-laws

  April 26, 2013

  I met his parents.  well, his dad and step mom.  They're everything I ever wanted in in-laws.  They're funny and nice and silly and goofy and helpful... It's like I met them and I wanted to be a part of their family.  Is that crazy?  I've never had that before.   i'v...

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• Screaming, I say.

  April 23, 2013

     So  I meet his parents on friday.  Noooot looking forward to this.  We've been dating a few months shy of a year, and normally this sort of thing, at least for me, is done somewhere in the first 6 months (if not much sooner as has been my history).  Is this what a...

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• 04/19/2013

  April 18, 2013

     We're in our new place, and lilly loves her new room.  It seems much bigger than my last place, which is great.  I'm getting annoyed at the drive back and forth to get and drop off lilly, but we've worked some things out so we're not driving as much.  We keep getting s...

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• 04/19/2013

  April 18, 2013

     We're in our new place, and lilly loves her new room.  It seems much bigger than my last place, which is great.  I'm getting annoyed at the drive back and forth to get and drop off lilly, but we've worked some things out so we're not driving as much.  We keep getting s...

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