Lessons from a Bitter Housewife
About me:
I am unfiltered, sarcastic, quick witted, harsh with my tongue, and while those qualities make me less desirable, I love just as hard. I'm soft spoken, I'm reserved, I'm quick to defend.
About my "diary":
She's a messy one. There will be no structure. If you struggle with control; this is not the place for you. If you enjoy a good, messy, soap opera of sorts - then grab your favorite beverage and sit back - you're in for a wild, and hopefully enjoyable ride.
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If you are someone that is following from my social media platforms:
1. If you choose to screenshot or share - by all means please do. If you think that these hard conversations/situations are not occuring in home first......
2. There will always be a disclaimer - be sure to include it with the sharing. As with any situation there are 3 (or more) sides to every situation and in this case you are hearing/reading one side - mine. No one else's matters to me.
⁑ DISCLAIMER ⁑
Remember: you are reading MY “perspective” of given events. These writings are MY feelings; whether they are present tense – written in the moment, past tense – drafted during the day, or anticipated – futuristic. All information provided is what I know from the information I have been given. As with any and every situation there are multiple sides to share the account. It is at the discretion of the reader to which side they favor.
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Dear Diary XVI
June 4, 2025
FACEBOOK POST NEVER FORGET THAT WHILE YOU WERE CRYING FOR THAT PERSON, THAT PERSON WAS SMILING WITH ANOTHER… While you couldn't sleep, that person was sleeping with another one. While you were crying every night, that person was going to sleep peacefully. While you waiting for that message, that ...Continue Reading... -
Dear Diary XV
June 3, 2025
FACEBOOK POST 𝗛𝗘 𝗪𝗔𝗦 𝗡𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥 𝗚𝗢𝗡𝗡𝗔 𝗧𝗘𝗟𝗟 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗨𝗡𝗟𝗘𝗦𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗙𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗗 𝗢𝗨𝗧 There is a certain kind of pain that words cannot explain. It’s the loud silence of betrayal, the kind that makes your heart heavy even when you try to smile. You gave him your trust, every piece of it, but he was hiding…Continue Reading... -
Dear Diary XIV
June 2, 2025
FACEBOOK POST "I watched him treat someone else better than he ever treated me… and in that moment…….. I lost all interest. Not out of jealousy, but because I finally saw the truth —he was always capable of effort, of love, and respect. He just never chose to give it to me. And that realization?&...Continue Reading... -
Dear Diary XIII
June 1, 2025
FACEBOOK POST To the Other Parent Who Didn’t Show Up We made this child together. But I’ve been raising them alone. And I don’t mean just physically— I mean emotionally, mentally, spiritually. I’ve been the one answering the hard questions. The one staying up all night. The one crying behind clos...Continue Reading... -
Dear Facebook
June 1, 2025
Facebook memories can be a real bitch - but also truth telling and revealing. I had written this and saved it as a private entry on my Facebook on 5/31/2024. From its contents I can assume we had a fight the night/day prior, you had worn me down, and I wrote this - accepting all…Continue Reading... -
Dear Diary XII
June 1, 2025
FACEBOOK POST You Don’t Get to Use “I Provide” as a Weapon If he asked you to stay home… If he said, “I want you to raise the kids,” “It’s better if one of us is fully present,” “Don’t worry—I’ve got us”— Then no, he doesn’t get to turn around and use that as leverage.…Continue Reading... -
Dear Diary XI
May 31, 2025
FACEBOOK POST "Just a friendly reminder: I give zero fucks about healing out loud. If hearing the truth about your family makes you uncomfortable, that’s your problem—not mine. Silence is what allowed the damage in the first place. So no, I won’t sugarcoat it, protect reputations, or stay quiet t...Continue Reading... -
Dear Diary X
May 30, 2025
FACEBOOK POST My therapist said to me today: “the truth will set you free” And she was referring to all of the secrets I’ve been keeping protecting “people. Letting my doubts and unanswered questions eat me alive with scenarios I create. But with asking the hard questions comes hearing the hard a...Continue Reading... -
Dear Diary IX
May 29, 2025
FACEBOOK POST Let them be upset. Let them judge you. Let them misunderstand you. Let them gossip about you, Let them ignore you. Let them be "right." Let them doubt you. Let them not like you. Let them not speak to you. Let them run your name in the ground. Let them make you out…Continue Reading...
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