I recently learned that my husband has no sexual feelings for me. That he hasn’t since we started DATING. But he still married me.
I’m hurt. I’m angry. I’m devastated.
I saw something coming. He started spending more and more time on his phone. He was getting more and more snippy towards me. I’d try to imitate things… and he’d turn me down or take his and not reciprocate.
I’m in shock. I’m numb.
I have tried so hard to figure out what was happening. “You spend too much time on your computer.” So I stopped when he is around. “You’re being too clingy.” I’m sorry I want your attention during the three days that we actually have to spend together due to our opposite shifts. “You make me feel guilty.” I’m sorry I have feelings that make you feel guilty.
He swears that he’s only talking in group chats on kik. That is isn’t in any solo chats with anyone. I can only blindly trust in the faith that he’d never cheat on me…. right?
I’m holding on. I’m not giving in.
But I can see him walking away, every day. He won’t put the stupid phone down. He promised me that he’d TRY to fix this but that phone is the only thing he concentrates on.
How do I ask him to put it down without pushing him farther away?