feeling low

Today Jo received a large insurance check… she was happy and plans to open a new account at my bank. putting part of it in my name.

I can’t help but wonder if Jo knows more about her medical condition than she tells me… when she told me she had stage 3 liver disease she kinda brushed it off… but she is a private person like that. she does not like you to see her cry or feel weak. I totally understand that because I am the same way.

I was talking to her doctor the other day and he asked me how her memory and concentration was…. and I feel it is good. she does not seem any different than she was 10 years ago. Her mind really seems pretty darn sharp! She has been thinking of every single way to keep this money from her loser husband. and she has really thought out Coles too. She does not want him ever having lots of money because she is afraid of his drug issues and drinking issues… with lots of money she thinks he would just do nothing but drugs and die. She wants him to find his self and work. She wants him to have their house they live in now and she wants him to have only hundred thousand. and only wants him to have it after he is mature be it 30 or 35…maybe later if he still has issues.

I feel very loved that she wants me to have the remainder of the money….

there still is money from the sale of the land. I believe that is 100,000 a year and she only gets half that. I think that would be good if she would give at least part of that to Cole each year. I think I will start some sort of investment for him with his money to try to increase it… if she is ok with that.

Please pray that Jo’s ultra sound goes well… I think that will determine  how bad it is.

She has really done well on her drinking!!! Thinking the past 3 months she has cut down a lot and the past 6 weeks she has not got wasted! she only has a beer or two. I am proud of her!

If she gets bad news and if she gets very ill… I will move her in my home and care for her. but she knows I will take care of her. She says I am the only one she knows 100% will take care of her.

I love my bestie so please pray!!!

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October 29, 2019

Question? Why isn’t Jo trying to do something so it doesn’t get any worst?  Isn’t there some sort of radiation or pills she can take or a transplant?  I hope she lives a  long time……

October 29, 2019

@jaythesmartone  it is her drinking that harms it and not sure how much meds help it??? Not everyone can be put on a transplant list and it has to be that bad to qualify

October 30, 2019

@kaliko I think Canada has different rules…But please excuse my ignorance because I know nothing about the liver…all I know is to quit drinking cold turkey or it’s death and no one wants to die…..

October 30, 2019

@jaythesmartone thinking they are the same rules as usa

 

October 30, 2019

Cutting down on drinking will help. The liver is a fighter! Keeping fingers crossed for her.

October 30, 2019

@bonnierose the live can only heal in stages 1-3 once it hits 4 it cannot heal

 

October 30, 2019

I hope everything goes well.

October 30, 2019

I’m glad she has you.

October 30, 2019

I hope that everything goes well with Jo.

October 31, 2019

I hope all goes well.