suddenly seymour

there has been so much going on in the last year…

there has been so much loss and pain…

so many nights spent looking at the ceiling as night faded to day…

the plain truth of it is, if i had been a nicer person, she would not have cheated on me…

i never made her feel special…

i never made her feel pure…

i never made her feel like she could tell me how much she needed me to be a better person…

a man that could settle for less to allow her more…

i do not what she did to me…

but 32 men in 32 years is hard to forgive…

i understand what she did…

i deserve it…

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3 weeks ago

You don’t deserve anything she did and the way you handled this situation is the best that you could.  She should have been more honest with you and told you what you need to do to be a better whatever towards her and/or the family.  I have told every one I ever had a co-habitation with that if I ever found out they cheated on me they are gone and I get everything they have.  Plus a few threats of harm.  Fortunately I have had no situation where I actually followed threw with my threats.

I think you are a decent man and I would think that you are an awesome provider and a great husband and an even better dad.  Just one question for you…..How could you do any better then what you have done without any communication or knowing what she thinks or wanted from you?

3 weeks ago

You don’t deserve any of it. Communication works both ways.