The End of a Bad Relationship

Today I changed my cell phone from the guy that I thought loved me.

He was too dependent on me to do everything for him and I asked him to give up his illegal activities such as selling his prescription drugs to supplement his income and to stop his habitual alcohol drinking and smoking, and his Methadone that he was only doing for the love of money.

He was terrible with his finances and Social Security Money. I thought it would work out but it didn’t. He was too attached to his family.

I kept telling him that he was going to fall  like  Humpty Dumpty  that sat on that wall and he took a great fall.

I hope the best for him but I can’t abide with alcohol, illegal drugs and an anti-social personality disorder.

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May 7, 2019

Wait, what? Too attached to his family? Like that’s a bad thing…

May 8, 2019

@lotussangues It is bad a thing when a grown man is too attached to his family.

May 8, 2019

How can this guy care about anyone?  I know from past experiences with y ex that the only thing they want is money when they spend all of theirs.  My ex was an alcoholic and smoked pot and I asked him to stop and to go to work and he said no he wasn’t going to work to pay rent so I said “see ya, don’t want to be ya”  That was the happiest and sadist day of my life because my son didn’t have a dad or a father.  It was good for me because then I stopped being an enabler.  It will be tough but you will get through this I promise.  Now start doing for you and your wants and needs.

May 8, 2019

@jaythesmartone Thank you I appreciate it. I know it will be hard on me and I am going to through therapy. I tried to talk to him over and over again. He sells his prescriptions to supplement his income and he brags about all of his pass girlfriends. He is on Methadone and he doesn’t want to change. I tried very hard to keep this a part. He almost made me homeless too. I have been down that road before. I told him until he walked down my road he would never understand.

May 8, 2019

@ladywicca The sad thing is these idiots don’t see what they are doing and his family is also enabling him to continue.  Is he collecting welfare also?  If so then I would be telling them just so they know.  And I would also be telling the police what he is doing.  And his doctor also.  Do you have children?  He needs to see what he is doing and maybe when he gets to jail he will smarten up after he gets raped or nearly killed.  I am sorry but something horrible has to happen to him before he will even see a glimmer of light.

May 8, 2019

@jaythesmartone  He is drawing Social Security SSI  for a physical Disability. The sad part is that he has already been in prison several times. It didn’t seem to help much. He is not honest with his family. No we are not married but I have a daughter from my late husband. She is 40 years old.

He is not honest with his family and all and I have tried to explain that he needs to be honest with his family.

He needs a detox program but Alabama doesn’t pay for it on Medicaid but it enables him to remain on Methadone and they pay his transportation fees.

I don’t drink alcohol, take illegal drugs or smoke at all.

May 8, 2019

@ladywicca Maybe it’s time you went to his family and told them that he is now on his own and the why’s of it?  And isn’t SSi handed out by the government?   Us canadians don’t have SSI.

If he is on methadone then shouldn’t he not be smoking pot or anything else for that matter?


May 8, 2019

@jaythesmartone  Social Security is for the disabled and elderly and retirees in the U.S.. you have to qualify for it and he has been on it since he was about 25 he was in a bad accident and he can’t use on arm. He has a bad limb. This late father helped him get on it. They already know about him but they are turning a blind eye to him.

It is true if his urine comes back dirty they will refuse him his Methadone and they have before it hurt him. He needs to go into chemical dependency program and get cleaned up.

I am sorry but The United States is one government and Canada is English and French.


May 8, 2019

@ladywicca Isn’t there a second language in the U.S.A (Spanish?) and don’t they speak it in the Senente or house?  here in Canada our government is governed in Both English and French because of Quebec and Montreal

May 8, 2019

@jaythesmartone I know but the official language of USA in English. Not Spanish. No everyone speaks English in the Senate and House. It is required. Theodore Roosevelt made the law.

May 10, 2019

You did the right thing I know it may have been hard to basically cut yourself off from him but good for you.

May 11, 2019

@sweetie04 Thank you I appreciate it and it was difficult. I am looking for the right man that doesn’t drink alcohol, take illegal drugs including pot, or pop pills. I don’t drink alcohol, smoke or take illegal drugs include pot.