paternity test?

 

So Jeff spent the day text messaging me yesterday. He is getting so irritating.

He wanted to take Parker. It was Parker’s great grandfather’s birthday. Unfortunately I don’t trust Jeff to bring Parker back. They met with a lawyer on Friday and I’m pretty sure the lawyer told him that since there is no custody order in place yet, that if he takes Parker I would have a difficult time getting him back quickly which would bode well for him if he tries to attempt for temporary custody. Until there is a custody order in place he will not be taking Parker at all.

Plus, Parker has pink eye. Stupid mall play area, that is where he got it from. I suppose its my punishment for telling Michael he has never gotten sick from there before. We were sitting there watching him play and Michael commented on how many germs are probably all over the equipment (it was packed). But yeah, now he has stupid pink eye. I had to take him to urgent care last night and get some eye drops for it. Poor kid.

Anyway, he can’t be around other kids, he is highly contagious. So while I wouldn’t have let him have him anyway, its not like Parker could have gone with the pink eye. Before I knew it was pink eye I did tell Jeff that Parker could come but I’d bring him and stay there the entire time hahahaha. He of course turned that down. Its not like I’m saying that he can’t see Parker, I’m just saying he can’t be alone with him until the temporary custody order i filed is in place.

Jeff says he is going to fight me for full custody even though he knows the chance of him getting it is very slim. Its not about Parker, its about winning for Jeff. Its retarded. I’m trying not to worry too much about it, but I know now I have to go get legal aide. Its going to be such a hassle. I know he is going to bring up my epilepsy and macular degeneration. My neurologist talked to me the last time I saw him and said not to worry about him using the epilepsy against me because he has seen this happen multiple times since he started practicing medicine and that he has always been able to successfully refute that. So if need be it, my neurologist will show that Jeff’s argument is ridiculous.

As for the macular degeneration. As it stands right now there has been no change which according to my retinal specialist means that it is unlikely anything will happen in the next 10-20 years. Which means his point is moot.

I don’t know what else he is going to try and bring up. I will obviously demand psychological evaluation. There is no way Jeff can hide all his mental issues. He is fucked in the head. I still can’t believe he tried hacking my facebook. What the hell is wrong with him?

Yesterday he tried to bribe me. He said he’d give me $600 a month in alimony if I signed over custody of Parker…wtf? I told him that no amount of money would ever convince me to sign Parker over. Then he demanded a paternity test…

Yeah, apparently that huge widow’s peak in the middle of Parker’s forehead isn’t evidence enough. No one in my family has one…his entire family has them including himself…and you know the hair and eyes…those aren’t Jeff’s at all. Not to mention why would you be demanding full custody of a child of a child that you suspect isn’t yours? He is just being ridiculous at this point. The paternity test demand made me laugh pretty hard. I told him he was welcome to arrange one but that he’d be paying for it. There is no way Parker’s father is anyone but Jeff. I WISH Jeff wasn’t his father, but I’m not that lucky.

I’m hoping they’ve established custody before the 27th. It is Jeff’s birthday and i have a feeling he is going to demand him that day. I don’t want to get into it with him over it, but I honestly don’t trust Jeff. he will keep him and not bring him back and I can’t take that chance. I doubt they’ll have established custody by then, which is going to suck. I’m really tempted to just change my phone number at this point..
 

Parker just picked up the cat and said "hi friend". So freaking cute.

Now if he’d just stop sticking the cat in the trash can…oven…vegetable drawer of the fridge…little suitecase…

Add throwing her to that list too. He just threw her at me. Ugh.
 

We went to my parents’ house yesterday. He had fun. He helped my dad water their plants.

Didn’t do much else. I cleaned the bathroom and Parker’s bedroom which had become a disaster. I had kind of just thrown everything I didn’t have a place for in there and it started to accumulate. I moved his toy organizer in there because I don’t want it in the living room. Its just too much mess. Although that area feels bare now so I don’t know if I’m going to keep it in his room. I put a basket of toys here in the living room, but the wall in that area just seems bare. It is also where the window is and I found the curtains I sewed for Parker’s old room (they’re too short for the window in his room here) and I think I’ll be putting those curtains up here in my living room so that may help that side of the room not feel so off. I’m going to pick up a curtain rod from Ross today I think. Its a really wide window so I need to make sure I get one that is wide enough.

Michael is supposed to come over today

He makes me so happy. i can’t wait to see him.

Ok I need to go finish cleaning my house. i did the bathroom and Parker’s room yesterday but I still need to finish up the kitchen (mop the floor, clean the counters…) the living room and my room.

 

 

 

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April 19, 2009

jeff just needs to fall off the planet!why does if care if he doesn’t think parker is his…which, i’m sure he KNOWS & the test is just another dumb ploy of his :/ ♥

April 19, 2009

WTF….these men are nuts

April 19, 2009

Sorry to say but Jeff is screwed up!

April 19, 2009
April 19, 2009
April 20, 2009

Jeff is a douche! A paternity test? What an idiot!