Ugly Old Man!

Today on a dating site a woman sent me a message telling me that I was (the short version here without profanity) the ugliest old man she had ever seen! At first I felt insulted and then… and then…AND THEN…I FELT FANTASTIC!

Why?

BECAUSE I FELT COMPASSION FOR THAT STRANGER! It was a measure of ME that I could think of that stranger that judged me by my photos of me with a beard in such a harsh way and feel for her. Feel a sadness for her toxicity and bitterness. It showed me how much I have grown over the years. To look at what others say about me and ask, “is there any truth to that or not?” I am as I am. Maybe ugly to some even handsome to others. Women have told me how handsome I am. Others… as I have grown older have called me “ugly”. It is a sign of my own life growth and evolution that what others say about me does not affect me as it once did. 

Words ONLY have the power we give them. Insults only have power if we give them power. Some people want to hurt others, manipulate their feelings with insults. I like to manipulate people’s feelings by praising them when I feel it is true. By speaking good when I feel it is right and true. NOT to insult someone to try to tear them down. I will speak my negative views of politicians or some others I despise but not tell people close to me in any way any negatives. If a person is annoying or someone I despise, I peacefully try to ignore them. To feel something positive rise in ourselves when confronted with negativity aimed at us is an oddly joyful experience. 

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3 weeks ago

People online tend to be vicious. It says more about them than about the person they attack. Well done!

3 weeks ago

@snarkle Thanks. That thing where they know you cannot reach out and slap the dog piss out of them 😉 Lucky them but … I felt good about it. Ugly as I am 😉

 

kat
3 weeks ago

@snarkle very true!

3 weeks ago

@skobru Ehhh considering the amount of makeup… hair dye/bleach… acrylic nails etc etc etc… most “Babes” are ugly as sin and trying like crazy to cover it up. Costs a fortune

kat
3 weeks ago

wtf! I see your pic and I do not think that at all! I bet in reality she has a little penis so don’t take it too hard lol

3 weeks ago

@kaliko Some people are damaged and want to hurt the opposite sex due to that past pain still there I think. Like I said, it is up to us what WE feel and not what they say to try to hurt us. Thanks!

 

kat
3 weeks ago

@skobru well then you are handsome inside as well as outside!

3 weeks ago

@kaliko I love you… ;-)Kiss!

3 weeks ago

Awesome!