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FACEBOOK POST I know I said I was taking a break but I unfortunately find peace in writing and I have no where else. I’m just trying to find my peace. So many of my favorite “go-to” songs carry a much different meaning now. I also realized by my song choices that my brain already…

FACEBOOK POST  𝗛𝗘 𝗪𝗔𝗦 𝗡𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥 𝗚𝗢𝗡𝗡𝗔 𝗧𝗘𝗟𝗟 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗨𝗡𝗟𝗘𝗦𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗙𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗗 𝗢𝗨𝗧 There is a certain kind of pain that words cannot explain. It’s the loud silence of betrayal, the kind that makes your heart heavy even when you try to smile. You gave him your trust, every piece of it, but he was hiding…

FACEBOOK POST You Don’t Get to Use “I Provide” as a Weapon If he asked you to stay home… If he said, “I want you to raise the kids,” “It’s better if one of us is fully present,” “Don’t worry—I’ve got us”— Then no, he doesn’t get to turn around and use that as leverage.…

FACEBOOK POST My therapist said to me today: “the truth will set you free” And she was referring to all of the secrets I’ve been keeping protecting “people. Letting my doubts and unanswered questions eat me alive with scenarios I create. But with asking the hard questions comes hearing the hard a...

FACEBOOK POST I’ve learned a lot these past few days - an important one is how fragile humans are. We have evolved into being able to love with our whole bodies - and the love we give and receive can literally affect our wellbeing. While we give our heart credit for the ability to love,…

*Previously written and shared to my Facebook three days after the affair was exposed* _________________________________________ Refuse to sleep on the couch and expect a warm spot in bed… Not when you had your arms around another woman less than a week ago. A remorseful man owns his mess. Lays i...

*Previously written and shared on my Facebook three days after the affair was exposed.* _______________________________________________________________ By now, it's probably obvious that there has been some form of infidelity within my relationship; I vowed to stay off Facebook, in part because I...

FACEBOOK POST It doesn't hurt me that you lied to me. It hurts me that you forced me to find out the truth on my own. That you looked me in the eyes while hiding what you knew would destroy me. That you have made me doubt my intuition, my feelings, my ability to trust…

FACEBOOK POST Therapy has been kicking my ass lately - and maybe you’re thinking “damn she’s IN therapy” because I’m a mess. But I realized today, while I’m a mess, I’ve come a really long way… Progress in therapy isn’t shown, it isn’t talked about enough. I still feel like therapy is stigmatized...

I've mentioned briefly that I'm an OG open diary writer I've also mentioned my desire to be an author.... I SO badly want to be a published writer. So much so that in 2002, I had a title for a novel - little did I know it would take 23 years to come to life.…