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FACEBOOK POST I know I said I was taking a break but I unfortunately find peace in writing and I have no where else. I’m just trying to find my peace. So many of my favorite “go-to” songs carry a much different meaning now. I also realized by my song choices that my brain already…

FACEBOOK POST NEVER FORGET THAT WHILE YOU WERE CRYING FOR THAT PERSON, THAT PERSON WAS SMILING WITH ANOTHER… While you couldn't sleep, that person was sleeping with another one. While you were crying every night, that person was going to sleep peacefully. While you waiting for that message, that ...

FACEBOOK POST To the Other Parent Who Didn’t Show Up We made this child together. But I’ve been raising them alone. And I don’t mean just physically— I mean emotionally, mentally, spiritually. I’ve been the one answering the hard questions. The one staying up all night. The one crying behind clos...

FACEBOOK POST My therapist said to me today: “the truth will set you free” And she was referring to all of the secrets I’ve been keeping protecting “people. Letting my doubts and unanswered questions eat me alive with scenarios I create. But with asking the hard questions comes hearing the hard a...

FACEBOOK POST Let them be upset. Let them judge you. Let them misunderstand you. Let them gossip about you, Let them ignore you. Let them be "right." Let them doubt you. Let them not like you. Let them not speak to you. Let them run your name in the ground. Let them make you out…

FACEBOOK POST A narcissist will bleed you dry and then get mad when you have nothing left to give. They’ll steal from their own kids' future, spend every last dime on something stupidly expensive, and then act like you’re the bad guy for questioning their life choices. “But I needed the new car/b...

*Previously written and shared to my Facebook three days after the affair was exposed* _________________________________________ Refuse to sleep on the couch and expect a warm spot in bed… Not when you had your arms around another woman less than a week ago. A remorseful man owns his mess. Lays i...

*Previously written and shared on my Facebook three days after the affair was exposed.* _______________________________________________________________ By now, it's probably obvious that there has been some form of infidelity within my relationship; I vowed to stay off Facebook, in part because I...

FACEBOOK POST I couldn’t have said it better…. HE WAS NEVER GONNA TELL YOU UNLESS YOU FOUND OUT. There is a certain kind of pain that words cannot explain. It’s the loud silence of betrayal, the kind that makes your heart heavy even when you try to smile. You gave him your trust, every piece…

FACEBOOK POST He was never going to tell you. You had to find out on your own. And that’s what hurts the most. Not the lie itself.. but the silence. The fact that he was willing to keep going like nothing ever happened. Smiling at you. Saying “I love you.” Letting you trust him, knowing…