Too much watching, not enough doing

when i lost a bunch of weight my sex life stayed the same.. super lame. i was watching the Tudors – soo not something you watch when your abstaining from sex.. a lot of it is hawt. 30 Rock rules!!

I found you on the front page. When you love someone skinny doesn’t come into play. Maybe he wants you to take control of the situation rather than just hint at it. I hope you get some soon.

Weak sauce @ rejection..that ‘and I SHAVED!’ really made this a hard note to leave. I was like ‘and she even shaaved, wtf’.

You’re on your way back. 🙂

Don’t get me started! I’ve rarely shaved since Sean was born, and Saturday, I tried- GOD! I tried! And still! Nothin’! Booooo poopyheaded men!

I wish he’d tune into your sexual desires more. I hope you don’t write off your drive totally. Somethings gotta give.

I’d sex my wife even if she had an afro down “there”

bah! moody men! >:(

I’m telling you there’s something not normal about that. If he continues to brush you off then there must be something wrong. (Whether it be a perception of you or of himself.) And yes I agree. With love nothing superficial like that matters. You love the person for who they are inside and personality wise. Even if you give him hints he still gotta know what you want. I mean it doesn’t take a

friggin genious to figure that out. It’s relatively easy to tell when a person’s horny. I don’t think it’s that. I think there’s an issue much deeper there. And he’s for some reason projecting it onto you. Did you ever ask him what it is about sex that bothers him besides it being boring and that he needs to be drunk most times to do it? This is not what I’d call a minor issue. And although

it’s not a right reason I could see the weight issue tying into it with him. But then again like you said that might not even change it if you were to lose weight and try to gain his appeal more then. I know you probably won’t want to hear this but this may be an area that’s hard to be satisfied cause there’s certainly no reason for him to brush you off like that. You need to tell him to shit

There is something up with this. I mean you guys used to be very sexually active. He’s not looking at a ton of porn and getting it out of his system, is he? How many times are you going to be rejected? And you are a very sexual person, do you honestly think you can live the rest of your life with sex once a month? If that?

or get off the pot! Because it’s not right for him to make you suffer this way. And it’s not right to withhold sex and only do it when he figures he’ll do it for the hell of it for you for your sake. This is not a completely healthy connection of intimacy. Something’s off and something needs to be dealt with with this issue. Sorry he did this to you again.

I got some twice in the month of July. TWICE. On different continent for 10 days, yeah, fine. Still. TWICE.

24 (on Netflix) has been my crack and escapist routine for several weeks now. Even when it is stupid you just have to keep watching. I have ignored 30 Rock even though Netflix keeps suggesting it to me. Now that I know someone who likes it I will give it a try when I hit the end of 24. I need that kind of distraction away from my own head, and its gotta be good to do that. I imagine myself these days as a turtle. I am glad to read that you are integrating the loss of your Aunt and finding peace with it.