Marriage The Beginning

I have been married twice before, yet I’ve only recently realized that marriage is actually only the beginning of a relationship. It’s the time to show the world your love, but it is the time to stop being selfish and start being committed. Previously I’d taken responsibility yet with this relationship, I didn’t have to, because my wife stepped up and also takes responsibility too. We are no longer two people but a united front against the rest of the world. I’d never felt this way previously, Now I know that I can really start working on myself and start fixing the things that have been broken for so long that I have forgotten more about why they happened than not. I don’t have to fear my own weaknesses being weaponized against me, I don’t have to fear being left for someone else, or losing my child.

This marriage has opened my eyes to many things, I am so proud that I am listening to my wife, am learning from her as well as from new experiences too. I know I still make mistakes, but I am quicker to try and fix them now than I’ve ever been. I am less likely to blame, or to feel guilty for any blame laid on me.

We have a lovely 2.5 year old together and for the first time I know he is safe, and I also know that my Wife is also safe with me, and I can trust her more than anyone else on earth. I am putting this out there, She is my Goddess, My heart and soul is truly hers, and each day I am going to try and improve some more.

Marriages can work, but you both have to do the work, and want to get results for the better.