The EXHUSBAND

He had a bunch of affairs, beat me, negleted our daughter, than ran off with some woman more than twice his age, then disowned his son. After 5 years of nothing, he wants to “talk like adults.” do i give him a chance to hurt me again? or possibly Get my hopes up about getting childsupport? He’s got it easy, The judge told him Minimum payments, Meaning he only has to pay like 81 dollars per week. He hasn’t paid a penny, He’s up to $12,000+, and now he wants to “talk”. I don’t know what its about but I agreed, Just wondering Why? What would he possibly want after 5 years, To say he’s sorry for ruining my life? or maybe to Show off his new daughter and wife? He’s just going to fuck that all up too. Why should I care about what he’s doing now? He thinks family is one of those things you can throw away and not think of anymore. He thinks he can be part of a life that isn’t his anymore. Well, We agreed if things didn’t work out, This while we were dating, We’d try to be friends. I DOUBT that’ll work. He’s the one who threw me into boxes and treated me like shit. He’s the one who wanted to bring our daughter to a friends house where they were smoking and drinking. He’s the one who didn’t have her home for nap or keep her clean. He’s the one who dissappeared weeks on end with no phone calls. You don’t just go and do that. If he joined the survice at least I wouldn’t have to worry about him sleeping around. If he did it there, they’d beat the hell out of him. Too bad he doesn’t have a brain. Maybe he wants me to stop the childsupport thing so that He can go out of country or do something. Like maybe work. But You know what? I Don’t give a shit. I am wondering, Is it possible to catch him? If I had the local police pick him up? Would it be possible for them to hold him until the courts found him in contempt? I just wonder???? what if I could get him? It would be kind of neat wouldn’t it?

So, I’m not sure when or where, But I’ll be meeting up with my exhusband after 5 years of nothing, Just so I can try to catch him. Is that really a bad thing? I’m bringing a friend so I don’t have to worry about him trying to kill me or something. I don’t know… That’s all…. I just don’t know. Could it be a bad Idea??? after all I’ve been though?