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On health.

September 10, 2018
My health has been pure shit. I am old enough that this should worry me.  If I were younger, I'd tell myself that more booze or pills would probably solve it - oh, and go get some more sleep.  But I'm older.  And health concerns should be, well, concerning. I have a pre-existing skin condition&he...
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