These are merely the rantings and ravings of one man, a man who is normally introverted by nature, but yet, still bold enough to say and write things anonymously in this kind of online forum. I don't pull any punches and I make it a point to be real and upfront in every entry that I painstakingly write. While I'm not necessarily out to offend, belittle, or disrespect anyone or anything, I know that with the way that I write and communicate, there's always the potential for someone to get their feelings hurt. I may not spare your feelings, but in the end, you'll always know where I stand.
The Visionary has spoken. Thank you for stopping by. Get comfortable and please, by all means, enjoy the ride.
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Reluctantly Looking Into The Mirror
November 25, 2023
As I mentioned before, I’ve never considered divulging my age on this site. User “rav diablo” used the phrase “advanced age”, which is actually the same term that I use at work to identify those who happen to be older than me, even if they’re only older than I am by a year or less. …Continue Reading... -
Look At All These Rumors
November 24, 2023
Rumors are an interesting thing. When you work in an environment that is almost exclusively women, rumors tend to run rampant and can wreak all kinds of havoc. I don’t know why this is. Since I haven’t worked in a male-dominated environment, I can’t readily say that rumors can cause the same k...Continue Reading... -
Crawling To The Finish Line
November 24, 2023
So, I haven’t chimed in regarding my USC Trojans 2023 football season in a few weeks and really, I didn’t see a point to it. After starting off at 6-0, things really fell apart ever since, to a tune of five losses in six games and really, I don’t even think we deserved to win…Continue Reading... -
Eternally Grateful
November 23, 2023
Dearest Serena, Though today is supposed to be the one day of the year when we’re supposed to give thanks for what we have, I know that I ought to give this thanks to you each and every day because not a day should go by when I don’t thank you and show you my…Continue Reading... -
Acknowledging That Lack Of Control
November 20, 2023
I’ve never been one to want to divulge my age here and I’m not looking to do so now. Still, I am very much aware of the concept of locus of control. I do my damnedest to not have an emotional reaction to that which I cannot control, because doing so is just a waste…Continue Reading... -
Alone Time, Anxiety, And Assumptions
November 20, 2023
I want to thank user "rav diablo" for stopping by, reading some of my entries, and for noting accordingly. Rather than reply to each note individually, I decided to reply in entry format and see if I can address each of his points in an organized way. All the notes to which I will be…Continue Reading... -
The Kind That Comes From Inside
November 19, 2023
Serena often finds herself ridiculed by her family because they don't see her like I do. I don't want to spend any part of this entry focusing on whatever negativity is getting spewed in her direction. Instead, I want to focus on what I see and how my eyes can't help but become fixated on…Continue Reading... -
Those 30 Minutes
November 18, 2023
It's not always easy to admit that we've made a huge mistake. Sometimes we need to be called out on it, even when being called out can hurt and sometimes adversely affect our self-esteem. To say this week has been a whirlwind would be a drastic understatement. Earlier in the week, Serena and I s...Continue Reading... -
The Last 24
November 15, 2023
That's about as clever of a title as I could come up with. I'm not feeling particularly creative right now. I tried. I might be rambling here, but I'm not putting much thought into this. I'm just writing what immediately comes to mind and I'm rolling with how I feel right now, as I…Continue Reading...