Curiousor and Curiousor

Yea! First day in over two weeks that we dont have a severe weather advisory on our heat.

Hrm. Just found out that Dapres has a fiance. First of all a year ago he didnt even have a girl friend. I know this because a year ago he was trying to get back together with me still.

Heh, either way she has grown children is ten years older than him…. ::shrugs:: its just odd to think that he finally found someone he wanted to marry. He was like the last person I ever thought I would hear of getting engaged. Just kind of wierd that he’s found someone (other than me) to get close to. I would say this is his first serious girlfriend since me.

They have only been living together for about a month and a half, never really did get an answer on when they started dating.. He just says he’s known her ever since he started working at Software Etc. Which he started doing when he and I were dating way back when I was 18 -19 years old… nearly 8 or 9 years ago. Pft. Seems to me something more out of convience than love… On both ends.

He told me that “we finish each other’s sentences, we both enjoy all the same things… Truely my soulmate.” Yeah I rolled my eyes at that as well. Justin and I can finish each other’s sentences… because we know each other so well after living a year together.. Oh and we like the same things as well… it makes us an exceptionally boring couple. Nothing new to learn… Not that it doesnt mean we are not any good together, it just doesnt scream soulmates to me… I honestly dont believe in them..

Whirlwinded romances dont seem well anything but Hollywood created.

I am thankful though to have Justin, because I could still be with Dapres, probably married, and he would never understand why I’d be so unhappy with him. HE’S still working at Software Etc. A computer shop in the mall… no ambition… at least Justin has ambition to have a better life than what we have now… just currently not the means to live it. Dapres… was perfectly happy living where he was, working where he was, blah.

Oh, and he moved into HER house… :;snorts::.

Sorry to rant about how I think its not a good idea, but he was my first serious long term boyfriend, and despite not wanting him in any romantic way…. he finally moved on from me… New issue altogether. 🙂 I can be happy for him though, it will just be wierd not having him as part of my family anymore…

heh… I think that’s what bothers me the most about it all anyhow.. he wont be as close to my family and brother anymore.. not worried about me and him.