You hate me and today I find the happiness in it!
I have found out today that people like just having someone they hate. Like their world is actually ok because there is that one person they hate. It doesnt matter if they hate that person for being a b*tch when that hated one is actually nothing like it. Or if they hate a person for standing up to another person because they dont do it. I have learned two things about being the hated one. First thing, it doesnt matter why they hate you, they just do. Second, the hater hates the hated because the hated is something they are not. It doesnt matter if the hated is something the hater wants to be or not, its simply because the hated is not.
I find happiness in being the hated one today. Because if someone hates me I make their world ok. With out me, the hated one, then their world would not be ok. I find joy in making another person’s life ok to live. I have learned that its ok to be that hated one. Lets list the reason’s why. I made someone’s world ok to live in, normal and well ok. Being the hated one I made someone feel better about themselves because I am something they are not. Today and yesterday I was hated because I stood my stubburn a*s ground against someone who everyone feared that person hating them. I laugh at them because they hate me for it but yet the person I stood up to doesnt, or so he has told me. Now.. how silly of those haters… I stood my ground, I didnt have to back down from what I believe in and the only thing I gained was haters… Ok Now Im starting to act silly about this all, but lets look at it.
Anyone who was ever teased in school, or hated by a co-worker.. Smile and hold up you head, think about why they hate you, its not because they know you well right? Right so its because either you are something they want to be, or something they dont want to be. Now I look at it this way, if Im someone they want to be, then its their fault they dont have what I have. Second part if they hate me for being what they dont want to be, well what exactly dont they want to be? In my case in my current haters club are people who hate me for standing up to someone they dont want them to hate them. Well the person doesnt hate me so really what do they hate? Im so rambling on this subject but I cant explain it any better. Im glad I made someone elses world Ok to live in because that person can go through life either confirmed that they are not me, or that I am something they want to be. Either way Im still me and they are not, and whats better than being me? Well you being you of course, but me being a hated me.
A lesson, maybe totally learned…
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As one of the hated, I must point out that sometimes, even if you’re right HERE, it’s not always the case. Sometimes it’s not “you’re perfect and they’re flawed.” Sometimes neither of you are perfect. Just remember that. ALL people carry flaws.
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Do you have so little respect for yourself that you’d deliberately stay in a situation where you’re not wanted, appreciated and/or needed?
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Surely you can make better friends who LIKE you for the positive things you can bring into a relationship and not merely be their punching bag.
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I found this entry kind of confusing, hard to keep up with who is the hater and who is the hated and why exactly. But I don’t hate you, if that counts for anything.
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