Recent teen experiment has me thinking @ the biz:

Prostitution has morphed from what you still see on the occasional street corners in movies to a situation in which scores and scores of very "qualified", mostly young-seeming women happily sell their sex online. Of course there are the older women who have been in the business for years or decades, but most of the money is probably landing in the hands of women 35 and under.

Consider how the hotel/motel industry has evolved over the years: Everybody used to have their level of accommodations and if you were a Motel 6 person you never stayed at the Sheraton, etc. These days, with discount lodging available online, it is much easier and far more affordable than before to land a multi-night stay at a nice hotel.

Back in the day it was the smaller, cheaper motels near highway exits which were the first to field inquiries from weary travelers who had been on the road all day and part of the night. Once the "No Vacancy" sign went up at those, then the medium sized venues would fill to capacity.

These days, with so many people locking in great low rates at more expensive places who are happy to fill their rooms, some of what remains for the very cheap spots is to house could-be young hookers for multiple nights on end. Of course the motels pretend not to know that the only persons not checked out by 2pm on a Tuesday are hookers working the day shift. It remains so easy for a working girl to pack a state of the art laptop computer and set up shop at a cheap motel.

Still others bravely and boldly host Johns at their homes and apartments, all in the interest of securing extra cash during tough economic times. The worse the economy gets, the more people turn to prostitution as a way to pay the bills.

Imagine this world where these girls spend most of their time in places easily accessed by those in their main metropolitan market. Then consider that, in times when the heat is on (police are cracking down on either individuals or motel operators), they merely use the aforementioned laptop to book a discounted hotel/motel room in a nearby community just prior to announcing "visiting (suburb or nearby city) for 7 days, book now!".

It takes a little while for most any hotel/motel to be absolutely sure that a woman is selling sex on the premises and, with women, the proprietors are inclined to err on the side of caution before confronting what is often an attractive female with such accusations.

Those who have been at this game for a long while are probably pretty good at reducing the obvious foot traffic and other signs that indeed she is being paid to have sex right there in her hotel room.

It might be a lot easier to avoid looking like a hooker in 2009 than it was in 1979, and that is part of the challenge for hotel proprietors and for police alike. Back in the day there was more public outcry in situations where prostitution itself had to be more public to begin with. These days it is a very stealthful operation to bring buyer and seller together on the internet, and websites geared to doing just that do a thriving business, all under the umbrella of free speech. Occasionally the law comes up with a new adjustment to various things that can or cannot be said/arranged on a website like this, and it is then when the websites close ranks and only allow those already signed-up to read the more juicy details contained therein. Outsiders are presented only with the most basic advertisements for "companionship" and for time spent in the company of a woman.

The girl I recent met, who turned 18 just this year, has already been shuttling back and forth to various local suburbs for days at a time. When we met, she was plying her trade roughly 20 miles and perhaps worlds apart from her former high school. I don’t have a great sense for how much business she gets, or how much she needs or wants in order to pay the bills, both present and upcoming. I do have a sense for how often she posts on Craigslist and other local online areas, and she certainly doesn’t seem to be breaking the bank at Craigslist $5 or $10 at a time. (some girls put up many Craigslist ads a day at those rates)

Unfortunately Craigslist has seen fit to disallow adult ads from "pregnant" women and that really hurts the ability of this young woman to reach her core interest group. Furthermore, it also creates the strong possibility that some men, seeing a random young woman of interest, would follow their interest in the woman pictured only to find her filled-out and extremely pregnant upon arrival at her motel room. That can create a bad situation in which the man is dissatisfied and feeling as if he had been misled, and she is there, alone with him in her motel room while trying to resolve the situation.

Apparently Craigslist had a situation where a woman answering an ad by someone presumably selling infant clothes was found murdered for her unborn child. Of course that didn’t relate in any way to prostitution, and while I can understand the shared concerns, I’m guessing Craigslist hasn’t outlawed the purchase or sale of baby clothing on its website.

So I have been sifting through lots of Craigslist ads and those from competitive websites like backpage.com in recent days. (browse backpage.com for the most telling photo ads) There are scores upon scores of very attractive, yet real-world women who are all selling their sexual company for the taking. (note: after just a few clicks in a new state, I discovered a holiday traveler from my area who is selling her sex in what is likely the hometown of her family, halfway across the country)

I can partially share the intrigue had by some men who might wish to dip their wicks into as many different candleholders as they can find, but while my eyes study the young, permissive flesh pictured at Backpage.com I truly don’t know what I would do if I had to sample scores upon scores of the options. What really is the difference between one blond, young, firm and curvy woman who will say "yes" and another young, blond, firm and curvy woman who will say yes?

It seems that published porn has air-brushed so many nude female forms over the years that anyone who takes her own genuine picture and then affixes it to a suggestion that she can be fucked, for a price, is made to look relatively immaculate, mostly just for being/seeming real. In some ways it is a glorious world in which we live, and in other ways that is downright scary.

These young women or the unseen operators behind some of them are certainly enterprising individuals and it is their combined variety that makes each of them seem so attention-grabbing. I don’t know when it ever stops for those men who are well-heeled enough to try each of the samples but I don’t really feel that I would like to find out.

Personally, no matter how many attractive, nearby, and affordable hookers I view online, I have a difficult time believing that I want to opt for any of them right now vs. a return visit to the pregnant teen I got to have sex with last week.

I’m sure it is counterintuitive to readers here that I shouldn’t want to seek the next nubile brunette who qualifies as being "hot" and "sexy" to expand the array of various paid-for flesh I experience in this lifetime. The pregn

ant blond teen is tried-and-true, safe, authentic, and a sincere person whose gentle ways surfaced quite nicely in return for my own gentle ways having been on exhibit when I shared her bed.

There just isn’t any reason I should take a chance on the firm, young body I might peruse throughout the next ad in hope that I would discover the same sort of a sincere purveyor of sex as I met last week. I’m sure the firmness of some of these other young prostitutes is as compelling as that of "Miss December", but I’d still rather partake in the company of someone I’ve previously sensed to be sincere, disarming and comforting.

Not only that but the second time with somebody is usually better than the first, even when you’re talking hookers.

This has been the mindset of a john

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You are a disgusting pig to contemplate going back to that girl. Not only is she entirely too young,wether 18 or not, she is obviously stupid as well and she is PREGNANT. I truly hope that someone reports her and authorities take her child away. She has NO business raising a child if she’s going to be inviting strange men in all the time. I’ve heard that Craigslist did away with the “prostitution” part of it’s site. And I’m glad for that.

I knew a girl who did the craigslist prostitute thing. She was Asian and she had a friend who did it with her, also Asian though very large. So on several occasions they would put the first girls picture up, then when they called she would say “Oh well Im booked tonight but my friend is free” by the time she got there they would generally be to horny to turn her away.

November 27, 2009

I work at a Sheraton; we know the signs: adding one night at a time, paying in cash, lots of phone calls, “trashy” clothing or spaced out look. The best was the girl with her pimp and he would come down to the lobby and watch TV for 1-2 hr at a time…when we get suspicious, we look at craigslist. If we find her on there our manager calls and tells her to get out now or we call the cops. Yep.

so the pregnant girl is “stupid”, and the person who thinks “Craigslist did away with the ‘prostitution’ part of it’s site” must be a rocket scientist. brain child!

The conclusions you draw are so misguided as to be fascinating. Your logic is so flawed, but I guess it’s based on your very limited perspective so it’s expected. I still find you very scary.

November 27, 2009

do you have any other hobbies. I respect your diary. I do not necessarliy agree with it, but that is fine. Out of pure curiousity why do you revert to this type of activity ? besides the obvious. YOu do seem to have a rather good brain on your shoulders.

To the anon noter who thinks I’M a “brain child”…I suppose you think this girl is a genius for having likely gotten herself knocked up by a john and then continuing to turn tricks while pregnant. Yeah, cause that’s intelligent. I had only “heard” that Craigslist discontinued obvious prostitution ads on their site. I do not know for a FACT. Then again, I don’t need to search a site like thatfor sex either. I never even knew before that you COULD find sex partners on Craigslist. I guess I’m just not desperate enough to look for something like that.

November 30, 2009

sometimes your notes are more interesting to read than the actual entry.

No, the notes are always fascinating and the entries are sad beyond belief.

Lor
December 4, 2009

RYN: I did therapy for a long time… started back when I was still married actually. It took me a few tries to find someone who I could actually work with. The problem? I didn’t like women because of mother issues, and I could twist men around my finger. Anyway, I did find someone who was really great, did some work that has made me a much better person, and then he told me I was too well adjusted and self-aware to be there on a regular basis. And he was right. I have checked in with him every now and then when I’m feeling overwhelmed, but for the most part I AM the cats meow, and I don’t need a therapist to do it.

ryn: I suppose I should’ve mentioned that the website had a specific box you could “check” if you only wanted to view nanny profiles that were open to gay marriages/relationships. So, it’s not like they discriminate against homosexual relationships. And yeah, if nothing else works, the realization that they could lose lots of money will definitely scare them

December 7, 2009

ryn: no no no! haha, sorry, i should’ve written more clearly. I did NOT have sex with Greg and then, for no reason TELL Ryan about it. I was just really really attracted to Greg, found myself thinking about him in sexual ways quite often. Ryan has always asked me to be honest about thoughts and feelings, so I was. And though it was what he’d asked for, he couldn’t believe I was capable of….

December 7, 2009

that level of honesty, I guess. One of those cases where the person wants the truth… till they know what the truth is. In fact the only reason I told him was because I felt badly about it, and I was taking precautions to keep myself in line so I wasn’t tempted to cheat. It’s never been a problem before, but… you know. Just in case I did things like hide Greg on facebook and tell Ryan…

December 7, 2009

that I was struggling with certain wants. I tried to explain myself as to why I was being so upfront with him, that it was preventative, but he was so upset that he dumped me on the spot. so… yeah, just keeping things honest. sounds silly now that I’ve explained it.