weekend
Thursday Bailey and I had a resume party at his house. He decided not to go to both MC Chris shows…he’d just do the Friday show and work on updating his resume on Thursday. I went over and we watched Survivor…gooood! Then we worked on his resume and cover letter. Got those finished I tweaked mine some, and figured I would finish mine later. I invited Bailey to O’Kelly’s but I know he doesn’t like how smoky it is. He passed. There weren’t that many people that showed up at Reyanne’s gig – a few of her friends, brother, and cousin…no one else from work or our normal crew. I had a few drinks – it was alright – Reyanne sang…I wasn’t drunk enough to sing (luckily for everyone else!) At 0030 I decided to call it quits. Bailey said he’s call me before he went to bed or I should call him if I left the bar before then. He hadn’t called yet so I called him. He was printing out his resumes at kinkos – just finished and on his way home.
I still haven’t gotten my backwindow fixed in my car – I planned to do it Friday morning. Bailey had agreed to follow me to the garage in the morning – I’d take him to work in his car, take his car, and come pick him back up after work. When I called him Thursday I asked him if he just wanted me to meet him at his place in the morning. He asked me "as opposed to?" "Me staying there tonight." He said he thinks it would be easier for me to stay there and we don’t have to worry about one person over sleeping or being late – I laughed, he just wanted a human alarm clock. He said I was right about that. I was happy to spend the night with him. I went over and we showered together (FUN!…I miss our showers.) Then we messed around before falling asleep. I still hae my period, so we didn’t have intercourse, but we did do a lot of other fun stuff! It was all good.
Friday morning we got up and brought my car to the garage. Origionally, a few months ago, I got a quote from this garage for $120. When a called less than a month ago I was told $160 at the most. Ugh! So that morning the guy asked me if I had gotten a quote yet. I told him about the 2 quotes – so somewhere between $120 and $160. He said when he called for the part that morning the part alone was $195 – so I was looking at $275. I told him I couldn’t do it for that much. He said he understood and wanted to get my VIN to make sure the part was right – he knows he had received lower quotes for the part in the past. He got my VIN and then called to make sure – he was told Chrysler had updated the part on 21Oct and the $72 part was now $195. Apparently it is common for manufactuours to update and improve the parts, but $123 difference wasn’t so common. I asked if there was anyway of buying the old part. He told me he didn’t know of one. I told him I was going to have to come back later, because I wasn’t prepared to spend $275. He appologised, nice guy. I know it wasn’t his fault…but UGH! I told Bailey to just go to work and I would take my car. I went back to his place and looked up the old part number the guy had given me. I found it for sale on the Jeep website. It showed the part at $73 for sale for $59. I called him back and asked if I ordered the part if he could install it. He told me yes, labor would only be $60 (which is ironic, because he was trying to charge me $80 before…unless $60 was for labor and $20 was for getting the part.) I told him I would order it and call him when it arrived. Shipping cost me $7….so for a grand total of $126 I can get my window fixed!!! It is still pricy – but back to the origional quote I had gotten….A FAR CRY FROM $275!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The part has been shipped and is due in on Wed. I’m going to see if the garage is open Friday and try to get it fixed then. I have to get it done ASAP since I leave for Mexico with my family (driving) next week!
Bailey and I decided to go to the MC Chris and SNMNMNM concert in Tucson together on Friday. I am very glad I went….it was a blast!!! If either are playing again I will so be there! Awesome show. I had quite a bit to drink….which made my whole mood that much better. Josh happened to call me about 0125 – about 10 minutes after we had left the show. I ended up talking to him for the next hour and 20 minutes home. It was a great drunken converstation….made the drive go very fast. When Bailey and I got home we showered together (de ja vu) and had another fun sexual night. We finally crashed out around 0500.
We had to get up Satuday and get ready for a wedding. My friend Steve who I met at work, we both started on the same day 2.5 years ago, met some girl from China. They were now getting married. The ceremony was nice – longer than the 90 second ceremonies I have been to recently – but not a full hour long religious ceremony. It was very nice and had many things I would want in my own ceremony. We had some appitizers at the ceremony…somehow I felt so sick after I ate. Story of my life lately. We had time between the ceremony and the reception to stop back at Bailey’s house…where I worshipped the porcelin Goddess for a few minutes. We got the reception and had a great time with a lot of people at work. By the time the salad got there…I was rushing to meet up with the porcelin Goddess again. Feeling better I finished my salad, my veges from the meal (since I don’t eat meat or the mashed potatoes slathered with meat gravy!) and some cheesecake for dessert. With the 5 glasses of wine I was full and feeling better. I learned from another sup in my department that some of my employees have been misbehaving since I was there last….fraud and severe customer impacted work avoidance. That didn’t settle well in my belly. We left around 2045. We headed back to Bailey’s house.
We were supposed to go to M3 to meet up with Reyanne. We were both tired and Bailey wasn’t up to it. He fell asleep on the couch. By 2330 I decided to go and meet up with them for the last 2 hours…I was dressed up and looking good….why not go shake my thing for all the boys to see??? Unfortunetly I only made it about 2 miles to the next gas station and was very ill….in the other stomach way. UGH!!!!!!! I can’t win. I debated still going to the club….but it wasn’t worth it. I text Reyanne with my appologies. She said that was fine they were thinking about leaving soon anyway. I headed home (my home) with a gallon of fresh water (Dr. Bailey’s order….only store bought water to rehydrate yourself!) I took some stomach pills….got sick a few times…..read inbetween….and fell asleep.
I slept in today. I ate a few hours ago…my stomach feels sour but I haven’t *knock on wood* gotten sick yet. I am going into work around 1800 tonight. I soooo don’t feel like it….but I need to go tend to all my bad misbehaving employees! Why can’t they just behave themselves….?????????????
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Anyway – I don’t know what is going on this week. I want to join Bailey and his family still for Thanksgiving – but I don’t know if I am still invited. I tried to hint about it all weekend, but he never made metion of whether he thought I was going or not. By Wednesday I am going to have to be very blunt about it. I’ll just go in and work on Thursday if I am not invited. On Friday I may go with Dawn and her family for a Thanksgiving meal….the invite is there. I am also invited on Thursday to her mom’s family in Tucson – but I think I’ll work if I don’t go with Bailey.
I know I have talked about all the time I spent with Bailey and how much fun we’ve had….but that doesn’t mean that anything has changed. Unfortunetly it hasn’t. We’re still "just friends." My friends tell me I shouldn’t spend so much time with him and should absolutly not sleep with him…and they are probably right….I just have a hard time not being with him when he wants to be with me. I have decided that I am still going to go out and have fun. Not looking for a one-night stand or a husband – but if someone happens along for either that I like I am not going to turn them down. I am just going to take it one day at a time. Hopefully something good will come of all of this….if it isn’t Bailey than someone better to show me I am not missing anything.