When in doubt…
I was talking to who is probably my best friend. She is having a bit of guy trouble at the moment… let me h’isplain…
She is dating a guy (who I think is a good guy, he passes) but recently is finding things out that bother her. I won’t go into too much detail, but I will say this. After touching her chest (with a shirt on) he has sworn to never touch a woman in that way until he gets married. I’m fine with that. I have a lot of respect for people who can do things like that. However, she is not fine with that. I think she’s reaching a part in her life where she wants to branch out sexually, and is very frustrated that he is not the same. Needless to say, after our conversation I’m not sure what the status of their relationship will be.
I find this weird because during my sexual exploration I had the greatest tutor EVER! She just turned out to not be that great a person… (well… thats not entirely true). I’m not sure what I would do if I had been faced with a similar situation. However, I see that her predicament is completely opposite to what most women’s plot is. Here she wants to venture… to experiment, and usually she would be fending these off…
She also said something that struck me… she said, “How could I live raising my children that touching themselves is a mortal sin?” I agree. I may not do it myself (woe, I tell you WOE!!!! Have I ever written about that? If I haven’t, maybe someone can help me…) I don’t believe it is wrong to masturbate. Matter of fact, I think it is healthy in the development of a human being. I can think of a few people that could us a bit of loosening up! lol
Anyway, I really don’t have any more to say, other than I am bored out of my mind. I’ve worked my ASS off today and now… suddenly… i have nothing to do. Weird.
Salut!
– noah
Seattle must be really open…here in the south, they teach us from a young age in church that if you “touch yourself” it’s a mortal sin. I found a book in the library in elementary school (I’ve always read above my level, heehee) that talked about masturbation and I asked my mom about it…she put up such a fuss they banned the book in elementary schools in our state! In our STATE. They freak
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out about stuff like that here. Talk to you later!
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I agree with you. Most girls my age, it grosses them out to hear a guy talk about that. It doesn’t bother me. Hell, i’d be more concerned if someone DIDN’T do it, lol. Like you, I think it’s healthy. I hope that your friend finds a happy solution for everything soon! Best wishes!
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interesting someone else has problems like me….
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Does he find it to be a sin, or does he just want to wait until hes married to do that sort of stuff, bc just bc you wanna wait doesnt mean you think its a sin, maybe he just wants to save himself, and dooesnt that sound a LITTLE sensual and romantic? kinda boring (sex and stuff IS fun, lol) best of luck to her, hugs and love,
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Okay – I think I read wrong – you don’t touch yourself?! Hell I even have a button on my front page that reads “I Touch Myself” LMAO I could never marry someone without having sex with them first … sex is important in a relationship no matter what people say and if you’re not compatible then you’re in trouble!!
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ryn: The internet! lol, just kidding.
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I will agree with the masses and say it’s normal. Healthy even. And I don’t believe you.
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