A random thought that made me laugh out loud.

For some strange reason, I was reminded of the time I was doing Paige from behind and she randomly told me, Put it in my ass.

I refused. I knew if I got a condom out, I’d go flaccid. …*laughs* I’m the guy growing his foreskin, I’m not getting my pecker dirty!

Paige seemed proud of the fact that she’s never let a guy in her ass. We had an understanding that she wanted me to do her in the ass someday. Why? You find another guy who is as anally experienced as I am. I know that area of the body quite well. She may have had more brunt sexual experience, but I ended up teaching her a lot more than she taught me.

And to spell it out, no, I never had anal sex with her. I’ll never understand why guys are so obsessed with that area of the body when its next-door neighboor is available.

Though. If you really want to get psychological into it… Anal sex is a matter of giving yourself to your partner. That’s an intimate orifice back there! It could hurt! It’s taboo! It’s dirty! You have to trust your partner to do it. Or something. Thus regardless of potential pleasure for either party, it’s desirable due to the intimacy it provides. Works both ways, of course.

Unfortunately, I’ve been told that guys like it because “it’s tighter”. *blinks* So don’t look at me to try and save millions of men who insist on being dumbasses. BE PATIENT! USE LUBRICATION! FOREWARN HER! DON’T JUST SHOVE IT IN! I swear, if millions of men weren’t dumbasses, where would I be today? *laughs*

Tighter. Bah humbug. I have a whole opinion on that I won’t express here.

Pixel

October 26, 2005

Heh. Wish all men had those parting thoughts.

And thanks for the warning of dependency. 😉 If I had him on my AIM, then I’d be dependent on him. *is joking*

Pshychological analysis seems quite good, maybe you could also add the potentiality of it hurting? -though you listed it, but I am not sure in this sense, if I understood well you were more talking about the giving/intimacy/trust aspect of it-. Like, although its not the same, a kind of SM thingy. This mere thing might be a reason in itself. But then maybe its my twisted mind talking.

Even thought she explained, she still hurt my feelings major bad. *sniffles* I need a hug, Timmy. I dunno why I let these people I don’t know on OD hurt my feelings. It pathetic, I know. *sniffles*

Thank you for the thought, Timmy. I’m glad someone would stick up for me.

I return the compliment, that’s why I allowed you to read my favorite entries as they expose me more than the other ones. I don’t systematically add people to my favorites, only those who seem to be trustworthy. Thank you for the link, I’m reading you at the moment. And thank you for the answer your insight was very appreciated.

I never really understood the big deal about anal sex. I’ve let a few guys do it, and if properly lubricated, it feels pretty good. it’s a whole different sensation than vaginal sex. But if the guy cums up there, I get the nastiest runs afterwards. I don’t know why. Maybe cum is a natural laxative?

Scorpio Frost

*snorts* God I’m way too fucking visual. *smirks*

OMG. Someone created an entire diary to flame me.

Timmy… you bust my shit up. No pun intended. I’ve never had anal sex… and don’t know that I ever will. Brad doesn’t seem very curious about it. I’ve asked in the past if he cared to try and he told me it wasn’t his thing. Weird???

karen.joy

anal sex isn’t very appealing to me. to that i say ouch! exit only please! and yup, it used to be my diary name. which is why i changed it. because it was his nickname for me. he never called me Karen. only sweets. blech. *hugs you!*