On Evolution of Attraction to Females.
When I was younger, I was a breast-man. Oh yes. I loved breasts. They were delicious and my primary sexual attraction. (I said sexual for a reason, typically what attracts me to a girl, overall, is far more than her breasts or any other feature.) I learned the archetypes of boys also being leg-men and ass-men. Legs? I could not fathom the attraction to legs. I might be able to logically deduce what attractive legs were, but I otherwise didn’t care. My eyes strayed higher. And asses? I didn’t seem to care. I didn’t know what an attractive ass was. A big ass? A small ass? Didn’t make much difference to me.
Breast-man? To be honest, if it was an option, I’d just consider myself a pussy-man. I mean, isn’t that the obvious primary sexual attraction of the average heterosexual male? I like admiring vulvas, and I obviously like licking them. But admiring the vulva of a girl across the room isn’t exactly an option, so let’s leave that aside for a moment.
After I dated Paige, I noticed something altered in my tastes. I still liked breasts, but something shocking happened: I started noticing fine asses. The reason for this, in my mind, was plainly simple: Paige had a huge ass. Penetrating her doggie style was rather fun. (And she knew it.) I still like breasts, but I find myself paying attention to posteriors.
But thinking further, is it really the facets themselves that I’m attracted to, or is it the girls that have them? Thinking back to when I was younger, prior to having any experience with girls, I really didn’t have any specific inclinations. In fact, I remember wondering, “What exactly am I supposed to be attracted to in a girl?” I never noticed the correlation that only after my first girlfriend did I have any cognitive attraction to breasts. Angel did have nice breasts, I must reckon.
Which has lead me to the obvious conclusion: My tastes have developed based on whatever facets girls have had in the past. If you looked into my entire taste in women, it’s evolved based what I did and did not like in a girl’s personality. (Okay, sometimes we’re all a little psychotic and like things we shouldn’t, but that aside.) As for my overall inclination towards fat chicks, you can probably just blame Freud on that one.
During my most recent romp, I found myself admiring her thighs while I performed cunnilingus. (Hey, we all have our writing inspirations.) I wonder. Will I start checking out girl’s thighs, wondering what it’ll be like to have her clenching down? Ha ha. I can only wonder. The point isn’t that I look for these facets in women. Quite the opposite. I find I admire whatever a girl I’m attracted to has. It’s only after I’ve experienced these facets in different girls that I’m able to fully appreciate them, so to speak. So girls, if you got it, flaunt it.
(But hey, this is just me writing out self-reflection, and your own attractions may operate differently.)
I’m attracted to so many types. It’s true, it’s the person that the body belongs to that makes it hot. Personally, I think a round bubble butt with little cupcake boobies is the CUTEST THING EVER. I love curves on women. Stick figures turn me off. Hell, I even like a little man-boob on my guys, cuz they’re nice to snuggle my head on. And a guy’s gotta have a nice soft ass for me to sink my fingersinto when we’re fucking. Other than that I don’t really care, since guys aren’t as much fun to look at as girls. RYN: Yeah, I suppose, but there’s a difference between a hug where someone drapes their arms around you, and a hug where someone really SQUEEZES you. That, to me, is the difference between regular sex and pussy-hug sex! 😉 *flexes her vaginal walls for you*
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I am probably a breasts man myself, but if I had to choose one word I would say ‘curves.’ Cheating eh?
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i love gypsy’s note. *grins* that kinda describes me.. well.. yeah.. you saw that in my pictoral. *laughs* but i really like reading introspective entries like this. really helps me get to know a person better. =D and it’s good to see a man liking whatever his partner has. that just rocks. i don’t know too many men like you at all. i’d have to say that you are definitely one of a kind, Timmy. 🙂
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You cannot make a boob boob if you start at the breasts
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ryn: I like the pic. But I still prefer a little hair. 😛 Although the shaven look does keep those pesky hairs out of my nose when down there. hee! re: entry- I definetly like curves on a girl too. Those stick thing girls just don’t do it. Maybe because I have curves, thus its easier to compare myself to others with curves? Boob men tend to be attracted to me. Well…. my boobs I guess lol,more than ME. The rest is just a bonus? haha. I dred the day when my boobs start bowing to gravity!
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Timmy, You Crack Me Up Sometimes! Im Attracted To A Mans Upper Body. . . His Build. . Shoulders, Biceps. . . Slightly Muscular, But Not Beefy. . . That, And His ‘blow Out The Sides Of A Tuna Can’ Penis! Lol!
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RYN: Obviously I was joking about the tuna can thing…LOL! If I ever saw one like that I’d run away screaming!
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I wish my work pants were more flattering to my ass.
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Give Gypsy my number! lol I am with you on this one. I remember when I went to college other girls were looking at guy’s butts, or legs, or arms. I didn’t know what to look at. Through my exes I found what I admired. Right now it’s a firm posterior, which my current bf has.
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Yep yep. Each guy I date, I can think of qualities he has that I’m attracted to, but if you just asked me what is attractive to me about men in general, I wouldn’t be able to answer very well.
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As fabulous as you are Timmy, I think I’d be too nervous to flaunt it around you. Come on let’s face it…you’re a frickin’ dia-lebrity.
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Thank you Timmy. I shook my boobies at the monitor, I hope you could tell. Speaking of my rack…I reached in the dryer at mom’s house, not really looking, just grabbed the first bra my fingers found. It was one of hers. My boobs magically went from a C cup to a D cup!
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