weekend update.

 No, TG, they didn’t send A home on Friday or Saturday – he is far too sick from the pain meds to even move an inch without feeling much pain and nausea.  He’s like a hurt dog – snappy and bites at pain and snarls at others, and you know he wouldn’t mean it at any other time, but it’s not pleasant and can get to people. His lady friend doesn’t know him as well and sounds less than hopeful; she paid his rent and got the remains of the bike out of the tow yard and she fears she’s lost that money – A WILL get it back to her, but it’s something he can’t even think about right now – his universe is one of pain and the loooonnng hours of it.  It’s just a week that he’s been in hospital now, and just a few days since he was moved out of ICU, and the poor guy is nearly 61, and is very broken. It will be a lot of work for anyone who cares for him at his home – A LOT, but it looks like his son G will move up here to care for his dad, and I will do what I can.  The son doesn’t have a driver’s license – he’s the one who went to prison for bank robbery, remember, and doesn’t have a car.  A’s Mustang will be impossible for him to get in and out of – too low-slung – and I will, and am glad to do it, be the driver – my Caliber is much easier to get in and out of, and I have some experience:  That 5 -6 weeks when I did that "Medical-Transport" job in 2011, which put over 4000 miles on my car and that didn’t even pay expenses, was total bullshit, I thought at the time, but now I see it as preparation for this situation.  I helped 104 people then, and I will be able to help one more now.  I completely quit smoking three days ago, and the meds I’m taking seem to help me out with that – they say the first three days are the hardest, and that’s at least $4 I’m NOT spending every day.  Besides, it’s time, past time to drop that bad habit, ya know?  A has a team of people ready to look out for him, so it’s a different situation than I was in myself.  We’re not completely organized yet and may not be before he gets out – too many chiefs and not enough Indians, ya know, but we’ll work it out.    

My view is cloudy now, but I Know the sun is up there somewhere, so Onwards!  I have things to do.

 

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April 7, 2013

For some reason my entries are not showing up as “new” when I post them, but if I go back and edit them (which I sometimes have to do anyway) they do show up on MY bookmarks list. No clue as to why it’s not working out the first time, so you may want to click back on previous entries, just in case my ego is right and you might want to read them.

April 7, 2013

glad they are keeping him a few more days sounds like its the best place for him right at the moment and yea you all will work it out eventually and if he isn’t normally a grumpy person this too shall pass 🙂 well far as I can tell I’ve not missed any of your updates thus far strange thou

April 7, 2013

Congrats on quitting smoking. That is a really positive change.

April 7, 2013

I’m glad you quit smoking too. I’m glad A’s son is free too, I hadn’t realized that. I hope things go well. Helping someone is such a good thing.

April 8, 2013

if they don’t show up, go back and edit the title. they should show up then. i hope the hospital doesn’t release him too soon. i’m glad his son is going to move in with him to help him. he’s gonna need someone there all the time and i don’t know that a new gf would be up to it. congratulations on quitting again. i know it’s not easy. son in law tried 3 times before the chantixworked. take care,

April 27, 2013

Very admirable of you to be there for your friend as ” relief” . Quitting smoking is a really good choice !