I’m my short time around this life, I’ve come to the realization that habit and dependency can be the biggest enemies when it comes to relationships. When one part is not synched to the other, it can become a toxic not evolving relationship. That drag can make life unstable without even noticing it. To take that bandage off the eyes can become as hard and difficult as to leaving it in until one side is ready to reap it off. Maybe my friend will understand that when he finally decides to see it from the other side. It’s hard trying to help them without hurting others.