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• I’m going to

  January 4, 2025

  I have a meeting w him on Monday about his working off the books and not paying support... With a Drs note stating he's unable to work indefinitely.   I know he will come up w an excuse and I'm not going to take it. I will not sign unless it's reinstated. Period. She deserves…

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• I did it

  December 12, 2024

  Idk I'm not sure what I wrote anymore but I did file last week. He got it already, I'm sure of it. Let's hope he doesn't show up because I'm not really in the mood to see him at all for the conference. Kinda irritated that I even have to go. Like hey, he said…

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• Did it

  December 5, 2024

  So I filed for the modification, yesterday. Actually reinstated it and I basically said everything. I knew he got his license to be a barber which is 1200 plus hours, his employment states he has "a year" of experience which he did not previously have prior to my filing annnnd is currently workin...

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• Made it

  December 1, 2024

  Just made it through November. Tuesday I'm going to file and then head up to my mom's for more paperwork. Wednesday I'm shopping. Tomorrow tho, nothing. Not going anywhere, going to wake up and relax w my girl all day and night. She did very well w Santa this evening but didn't want to stay…

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• More venting

  November 26, 2024

  I'm still really just full of anger over all of this w her father. I really just want to hold him accountable, even if he doesn't pay. Hopefully after I file, that's the nail in the coffin. He hasn't been active in 4 years. Why am I afraid he will try to see her? That…

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• What else

  November 23, 2024

  Yes I'm still livid. I am going to file during the holiday at my mom's. I'm supposed to go up the evening before to help with my kids. We may stay overnight. Monday I'm supposed to go do all the shopping for my mom. Tuesday I'm supposed to make the pies. Wednesday is a half…

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• Discouraging

  November 19, 2024

  Everywhere I read and including myself states it's law to provide support for your child. But hey get a Drs note. That still shouldn't exclude shit. You can still pay support on SSDI or SSI. He's probably not on either or maybe he is. Idk how to find out other than to go and ask…

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• I just can’t win

  November 15, 2024

  I went to the Dr yesterday and I'm back on meds, again. Same stuff as before. And I got a chest X-ray which seems to be ok but she was concerned about a spot to rule out pneumonia. So idk. When I got the x ray the last time in September, they said it looked…

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• Deadbeats never win

  November 14, 2024

  Edited email I sent to CS. I am livid. And if I don't do anything, then nothing will be done. However if the shoe was on the other foot, I would be threatened w jail time and told I am employable and still be held accountable to pay. And I do for my son. No…

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