2nd interview in 2 weeks

 Well.  I guess I was looking for the wrong kind of job.

Thursday afternoon, I have another care-giver job interview.  One could (and I will) say that I’ve had recent experience.

My biker friend is recovering well; I took him to pay some bills today.  We spoke about his marriage; he’s pretty scarred over that 14 year relationship.  It causes some cognitive dissonence; I saw her last night, but I don’t carry tales back and forth.  I tend to keep them as separate as possible.

It’s kind of entertaining, sort of.

The medications are keeping me sharp – a good thing; it helps me remember who I said what to.  Their marriage didn’t end well, and it is with some glee that I think "we didn’t do that".  My wife and I got divorced before the hate set in.  We’ve been divorced 6 years longer than we were married now, and both think we’ve done the divorce thing very well, unlike so many other couples.

It may help that we have the Pacific ocean between us now, and she says that I get "the best of her" when she comes to visit.

She’s been helping me survive this unemployment, and the University jobs are drying up; she’s taken on Adult private lessons and says it’s a bit hard on her; it’s a good thing my job aps are bearing fruit; maybe I’ll be working soon.  She probably won’t be coming this summer, sigh, but at least I may have good news for her.

My Job Developer is giving me some "interview practice" tomorrow, and I’ll be picking up the payment VRD is providing for my next month of medications – looks like a busy week.  Hopefully things will work out for me.

Onwards.

 

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May 22, 2013

good luck! take care,

May 22, 2013

good luck

Well yes, you have had recent experience. Good luck. Smart not to carry tales between then. Good luck to them.

I just have to tell you all this energy moving around you is positive. I know you have to trust your sense of things with the gal, but man, AA would advise you to steer clear. Be her friend, but letting her move in…boy.

I don’t remember, are you going through DVR?

best of luck! Light of heart,

May 22, 2013

good luck!

May 22, 2013

You really are good at taking care of people, Cat. You have a good heart and a good head on your shoulders. Although you don’t always feel like you have it all together, you are still a great person and would make a good role model for someone. You have life experience. I mean, real. life. experience. and yet you still keep going onwards. 🙂

May 23, 2013

It sounds as if you and your ex are still good friends. That is always a plus I think. It shows a lot about the both of you. A lot of good things.