you wanna know..So I say

You know what I hate? When people ask you how you are and of course they want like the short and sweet I am ok as an answer.

The thing is: Ok doesnt work for me. I think that is a horrible answer for anything. Same as Nice or fine.
So I tell them. Takes about a paragraph worth of an answer but ya know what…Oh well. : )
Usually people roll their eyes get annoyed. Answer me with yeah or uhhuh after every sentence but here’s the thing: Dont ask..if you dont wanna know. Me on the other hand: I totally without a shadow of a doubt want to know if I ask and I listen.
So If someone says just ok. I wonder:are they really just ok? Or are they saying that? Cz you know somewhere along the lines they came across a yeah or a uhhuh person.

I cant stand that.
Dont ask someone how they are doing if you dont want to know. Also It is Rude in my opinion to say yeah or uhhuh,Unless you are actually listening.
I think kindness reaches far further then a patient empty response. Go ahead,Give it a try: Give abit to someone else…Live outside yourself for two sentences some one else has said.

I just think it should work that way.
I hate ignorant people that say they are listening but like two days later have absolutely no idea what you are talking about.Even though you have told them at least nine times.

Its simple: fucking Listen. I listen.I know exactly what people are saying to me.(Unless they are yelling or talking to me in a disrespectful matter: Then fuck that…I dont care one bit)

disrespectful matters include:
Cursing at me,Defaming my character,assuming you know what goes on inside of me with out even asking my opinion, assuming I am not listening and raising you voice at me,Telling me something you know is wrong to get me to argue with you, I am not a fighter..I hate it really.
Telling everyone what my opinion would be in something without actually knowing for a fact: Because you never asked me.

Anyway. That is all I have to say: People in general piss me off.

I dont like talking anymore. No one really listens. If they did then we would have a fucking dialog already.
Siarai

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people stink hon. /hug. i heart ya. Chris