How I feel
Honestly I feel like nobody is going to like a chubby, not so pretty, nerdy, and weird teen. I’m just looking for friends that are my age. I’m looking for a friend that won’t judge me for who I am. I don’t know how to communicate with people and I understand that but I’ve been trying really hard. I’ve tried to change who I was just so people would like. I just wanted someone to love me because it was what I needed at the time. I still need to be loved.
Be yourself.
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You sound like me when I was a teen, which was way back in the day when there was no internet. I have had luck finding friends (and sometimes just people to hang out with) by seeking those with common interests. Even weird and unusual interests will have people who are into such things. Changing yourself can only do so much, and can often backfire. Over the years I learned to change (or try to) things I did that other people found annoying and off-putting, and that has helped. Expanding your own interests (or at least learning about other things you may not be interested in but other people are) can make conversation easier as you will have more to talk about with other people. This doesn’t mean giving up your own likes and interests either. You can be you and still be relatable to others. Also know that as time goes by and you get more experience, things will get better.
@schrecken13 Thank you. I really hope I can do something to be able to talk to people more.
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