#pessimism

What happens to me is that I always create scenarios in my head as to how to handle everything possible that could happen all by myself. It's exhausting. I don't want anything handed over to me ready, for free, no matter how much I complain. However, it may backfire as a useless source of worries...

Have you ever been in a situation, where everything feels so damn right that you start fearing there is something hidden that will soon ruin the happy moment? I only know that this is somewhat valid. I don't know where is the fine line between being paranoid and protecting yourself from disappoin...