#relationships

I'm outside in the cold November air. 115 lbs, blonde hair blue eyes in a pair of pink scrubs with tight yoga bottoms and nike shoes from gabes department store. There he is, Tom, the kitchen supervisor. He's on the other side of the parking lot entrance crouched down so his weight is bouncing be...

warning, not appropriate for kids or anyone who doesn't like adult content/swearing.               So I did a thing to get over another thing, classic emotional acting without any common sense. My really good friend and also friend with benefits guy overdosed a ...

I occasionally handwrite in various notebooks, but thought about an electronic journaling. Lo and behold... Google suggested opendiary. How could I have forgotten something I used for YEARS? Now, nearly two decades later, I reclaimed my old opendiary. I doubt I'll go back and read old entries... ...

So, yeah. This week has been a rollercoaster. I really want to just... write out how my Tuesday happened, but I think it's important that I set it up with Monday as well. Monday: As I wrote about a few hours ago, I had a "date" with my separated wife at a bar close to…

Everyone needs those, lifting words of encouragement to know they are doing well especially when you are in love.  Couples, shouldn't be pointing out the flaws they see in the other person, flaws are supposed to be those cute, quirky things your partner does that makes you keep falling for them o...

So fifteen years ago I had a severe breakdown, was hospitalised and diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia. In the last fifteen years I have clawed my back to the light; to a common reality; to a place where I feel vaguely connected to the people around me. I'm still working on this. I am a lot&he...

So. I met this guy eight years ago on holiday in Europe. I fell for him so, very, hard and I think he fell the same for me. He was married, I was in a relationship and neither of us was happy with our partners. We spent a week together and it was magical. When…

He messaged back. The guy I messaged eleven months ago. I messaged him again, two months ago, about two hours after finally breaking up with my ex. I'm not proud of myself, waiting such a short amount of time before approaching someone else but in my defence I didn't expect him to reply. I was&he...

Recently, i've been interested in how to connect better with people. One of the things i've heard is being more open and vulnerable with people helps deepen relationships. I've always thought this meant being overly sensitive or disclosing your deepest darkest secrets. However, i realized this is...

I woke up at 5 am, turned over in bed to see Patrick facing me with his mouth wide open and a piece of dip sitting under his tongue, and on the roof of the spit bottle still half-fallen over in his hand. The most unattractive time in Pat's life is his slumbers.  I wish…