A WONDERFUL EVENING

Last night my daughter and I were invited to my son’s ex wife’s home. We went there for supper. My grandson was there too.

I was so happy and pleased to see the way my ex-daughter-in-law, who is living with her lover, is bringing up my grandson. At this stage I think he is much better off with her than my son. She is so in tune with my grandson’s needs. They are both very calm and talk to him in a very positive and encouraging way. Their home is warm and inviting. They have five cats!!!!

We had a delicious barbecue for supper. We stayed and talked till after 10. In a way I felt I was betraying my son. She did tell me that my son was encouraging her to call me. I wonder why. Was it because she discussed with him that she wanted to call and he told her it would be ok?

My son on the other hand is going through a rough time and I am having a hard time being patient.

I know he was very hurt by he divorce and her rejection and turning gay.

He lost his family and job at the same time. he is NOT making any money now or at least very little so he cannot do what he wants to do. He has to start at the bottom and is not willing to do it. He had two steady jobs with too little pay for him so he is trying to strat a new business. I hope it works for him.

He found a girlfriend so now he is torn between his girlfriend and his son. She is telling him how to raise his son. I am sure she told him to drop off his son at his mother’s first on Friday. I told him before they left here NOT to hurt his son by dropping him off first. Why does he have to see that his PAPA is staying with someone else’s children? He listened to her because she thinks my grandson has to get use to the new STATE OF AFFAIRS!!!!! He is only five. In the last year or two he had to get use to plenty!!!!! Two new homes……..his NANA stopped living with him. His mother has a lover and his father has a girlfriend with two new children. I think he has adjusted pretty good.

Anyhow I must get ready. I am suppose to be going to the country with my daughter. She should be home soon. Yesterday we were suppose to be at my daughter-in-law at five. My daughter changed the date for six and in the end only came home a little before six. Luckily my ex daughter-in-law didn’t seem upset.