ARE YOU GETTING MARRIED?


I WONDER HOW WELL YOU KNOW YOUR FIANCEE. HOW ABOUT ASKING THEM THESE QUESTIONS? THAT IS IF YOU DON’T KNOW THE ANSWERS.

DO YOU WANT CHILDREN? HOW MANY? HOW WOULD YOU DISCIPLINE?

WHAT ARE YOUR FAVOURITE FOODS?

EVER BEEN IN JAIL?

WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN COMMON?

DO YOU HAVE RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER?

WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO IN YOUR SPARE TIME?

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT CREDIT CARDS?

DO YOU WANT ANY PETS? WHICH ONES? HOW MANY?

HOW WILL YOU SPEND WEEKENDS?

HOW DO YOU CELEBRATE THE HOLIDAYS?

WHERE/HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO SPEND YOUR VACATIONS?

WHAT RELIGION ARE YOU AND WHAT WILL YOU PRACTICE?

HOW DO YOU CELEBRATE BIRTHDAYS? ANNIVERSARIES?

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT ME GOING OUT WITH MY FRIENDS?

HOW WILL YOU HELP AROUND THE HOUSE?

HOW OFTEN DO YOU VISIT YOUR FAMILY? GET TO KNOW THE FAMILY. YOU WILL BE "MARRYING" THEM TOO!!!!

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU GET ANGRY? DISAPPOINTED?

DO YOU TAKE ANY MEDICATION? WHAT FOR?

SMOKE? DRINK?

DO YOU EXERCISE?

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT PORNOGRAPHY? STRIP CLUBS?

WHAT TYPE OF MOVIES DO YOU LIKE?

WHAT SHOULD I KNOW ABOUT YOU?

TELL ME ABOUT YOUR FOOD LIKES AND DISLIKES?/ RESTAURANTS?

I AM SURE MY FRIENDS ON OD HAVE MANY MORE TO ADD.

HAVE YOU BEEN MARRIED? WHY DID YOU GET DIVORCED? HAVE ANY CHILDREN? DO YOU SEE THEM?

REMEMBER::::::::
***** YOU CANNOT CHANGE ANOTHER PERSON.
IT WILL NOT GET BETTER.
DIVORCE IS NASTY ESPECIALLY WITH CHILDREN INVOLVED.
DON’T TAKE EACH OTHER FORGRANTED.
HAVE A DATE EVERY WEEK.
WATCH CAREFULLY HOW HE TREATS EVERYBODY AND YOU!
DON’T SPEND A FORTUNE ON THE WEDDING. MAKE IT SMALL AND INTIMATE. KEEP YOUR ENERGY FOR AFTER YOU GET MARRIED!!!!!
GOOD LUCK. REMEMBER TO GET AND STAY MARRIED YOU HAVE TO GROW UP, BE MATURE AND REALLY CARE ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON. MAYBE SPEND A FEW MONTHS WITHOUT SEX AND SEE HOW YOU GET ALONG. SEX WILL TAKE A BACK SEAT WHEN YOU ARE FACED WITH WORKING, CARING FOR A HOME AND CHILDREN.

 

 

 

 

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May 16, 2010

This is nice, but not reality. You learn about your mate as you live with them. Ex: My hubby’s family celebrated Christmas on Xmas Eve. Mine on Xmas Day. We were married in May. Things like Xmas didn’t come up till 7 months later. Our birthdays were already past when we got married. You compromise as you go along.

May 16, 2010

^^^ That’s why it’s better to actually ask these questions before you get married whether the subjects “come up” or not. That’s the whole point.

These are good things to find out BEFORE getting married. It sounds like the above noter didn’t know her husband very long before she married him…they hadn’t spent a birthday or Christmas together yet! Good luck to them! Another good question is “what kind of health problems run in your family? Do your relatives tend to live a long time? What about dental problems? Do you have any?”

Also there needs to be a lot of discussion about finances! A whole lot! A person who likes to spend isn’t going to get along with someone who doesn’t. Oh and politics need to be discussed as well!

May 16, 2010

Those are good questions. Many times marriage happens before the two people really know much about each other….they THINK they know each other but when reality sets in they wonder what happened.