Setting Myself Up
I think that in the end, it might be in my best interest to stop having expectations. By not expecting or anticipating anything, I don’t set myself up for disappointment. I also need to stop caring about things altogether. By not caring, I don’t invest myself emotionally in any capacity and I don’t leave myself open to being let down.
I want to say that I was so much happier when I didn’t care about things. Caring is costly and I think I’m done paying the price.
Things happen all around us. A lot of those things remain out of my control. I need to get back into not caring about those things.
I don’t know what more I can do.
I am sorry you are feeling this way. I always look at things differently than most. I plan for the worse and hope for the best. That way if it does goes bad I was not disappointed and I was prepared for it.
I think caring is not costly unless you make it so but I live in the land of the “F@#$ It”. I love deeply and care deeply but I don’t give 2 Effs about drama, negativity and toxic people. In my 20s I think I was a door mat for all around me, by my 30s I was guarded and I let less people in my circle. Now in my mid 40s I don’t care if someone is my blood or friend or foe, I will walk away in a blink of an eye to those dragging me down with them.
Do what makes you happy, not others. Please your self, not others. Best advise I ever got was all you need is a handful of close friends ( meaning no more than 5 ).
Don’t give up life has a away of evening out when we learn to let go. Good luck. Feel Better. You are worth it. Some people need to hear it and I think as humans go we need to hear it more often these days. World is crazy.
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