Morning sex.
My fiancé got out of work at 3:30am, so when he got home he showered and woke me up. It’s now, like 4:30-5am. He woke me and we began to have sex. Our second attempt this week. I love having sex with him, I love the way he makes me feel. But sometimes, I feel like I shouldn’t be having sex. Like I’m wrong for enjoying it. Lately, I’ve just been feeling down. Sad. I think that since all of this stuff in the media about kids being molested or raped, has been triggering me. Too many stories of young kids being violated has been bringin up some memories.
You need to have a chat with yourself. Sex as an adult with another adult is not wrong. You are replaying old programming. Drop that channel sugar! I’m here if you need to talk.
@snarkle you’re absolutely right ! Thank you! Likewise !
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What Snarkle said! Many of us are kind of programmed to believe that sex is a bad thing – that it’s naughty and dirty. It’s a sin.
Its not. It’s a healthy thing between two consenting adults. There is absolutely no correlation between what you and your fiancé do and what happens to abused children.
if things happened to you, that’s a whole different can of worms. I’ve been there, and therapy helped.
Good sex helped even more! 😉
@oniongirl you guys are right !
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