My diary has been here since 2005. I have always used it to reflect and process. Writing has been the best therapist for me, though I have actually had some excellent therapists, as well. I took a 12-year break and recently began using it as a launch pad for writing a memoir.

Until 6/23/2019, I was OnionGirl. See entry of the same date for why the change.
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A Mile in My Shoes 1, ᶠᶦᶜᵗᶦᵒⁿ

October 17, 2021
Stephen was standing by my locker after Geometry.  I can’t stand him. Like all the women in my family, my bust is larger than average.  I’ve been wearing bras since third grade. The boys at school think it’s hilarious to bring attention to them.  They also purposely mispronounce my name from Chas...
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Recent Entries

  • Rainbows and Butterflies
    August 25, 2021
    The morning after that awful night, Drew was much more of the man I love.  He is no longer on the morphine, and, when he's lucid, he's showering me with love and affection. Our landlord took us to court claiming that we owed rent for July and August.  We didn't, and I proved it, today. …
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  • Shattered
    August 16, 2021
    Yesterday was one of the worst days of my life. My fiancé, with whom I’ve had the most amazing relationship ever for more than six years now, overdosed on his pain medication. He’s home, now, but I am all but shattered. He has cancer in the back of his mouth, and he can’t swallow. They’re…
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  • Coming Apart
    June 27, 2021
    1/12/2021 - Total Hysterectomy 1/16/2021 - 50th birthday 1/19/2021 - Sepsis 3/11/2021 - Future Step-Daughter robbed at work and assaulted (minor physical injuries) 3/21/2021 - My Princess Crazy Pants passed away suddenly. 6/3/2021 - My dad passes away suddenly 6/19/2021 - Landlord shows up at our...
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  • In Threes
    June 4, 2021
    My mom swears that bad things come in threes.  I know people can always come up with examples of it, but I can usually debunk it with a little research. That said, there have been three painful deaths in my life over the past 11 months.  The first was the loss of my dog, Chunk. …
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  • The Passage of Time
    May 6, 2021
    The entity with which I am currently wrestling is the passage of time. I would swear that I just graduated from college, but then my sister would not have yet married her husband or borne any of her three beautiful children, one of which will be graduating high school, this year. It seems like th...
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  • Asset 6
    More Examples of Ongoing Oppression (Reparations Cont’d)
    March 26, 2021
    79 days ago capitol police stood by and watched as a mob of Trump-inspired supporters attempted to overturn Trump's crushing defeat in the 2020 United States presidential election by disrupting the joint session of Congress assembled to count electoral votes to formalize Joe Biden's victory. Yest...
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  • Reparations
    March 25, 2021
    I saw this quote on the first diary post displayed, this afternoon: "But yeah, the reparations thing is bullshit. That would be like me ripping off a store and someone having to pay for it 100+ years later." Here's the thing about slavery and Japanese internment camps and forcing Native Americans...
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  • Silver Linings
    March 24, 2021
    I was in the process of writing about how crappy this year has been for me, thus far: I had what was supposed to be a simple hysterectomy turn into a total hysterectomy. I turned 50. I went septic and spent several days in the hospital. I had to push IV antibiotics for a month,…
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  • Nevermind
    March 7, 2021
    I came here to update you on my life, but just trying to think of where to start has caused a panic attack, so I'm going to have some ice cream and go to bed.
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