Romance isn’t nearly as easy as it seems. Especially for an over thinker such as myself. Every second you’re not texting them, every second you aren’t talking to them, they are always in your mind. Furthermore, if something happens that even slightly makes you upset, it hits at least 20x harder because it was because of the person you love. Spiraling makes things even worse, because you begin thinking and thinking, and eventually you breakup because you can’t handle it anymore. I don’t blame anyone who breaks up with their significant other, even over small things, because the pressure of being in a relationship is much more difficult than almost anything in the world.