#toxicpeople

What happens to me is that I always create scenarios in my head as to how to handle everything possible that could happen all by myself. It's exhausting. I don't want anything handed over to me ready, for free, no matter how much I complain. However, it may backfire as a useless source of worries...

I love my wife's mother, she is almost a second mom for me by now, but one of the things I really hate in my life is when someone hurts other people for no reason just because she feels superior and my mother in law is doing it all the time. Just this afternoon I…