Dear Diary

FACEBOOK POST I know I said I was taking a break but I unfortunately find peace in writing and I have no where else. I’m just trying to find my peace. So many of my favorite “go-to” songs carry a much different meaning now. I also realized by my song choices that my brain already…

FACEBOOK POST NEVER FORGET THAT WHILE YOU WERE CRYING FOR THAT PERSON, THAT PERSON WAS SMILING WITH ANOTHER… While you couldn't sleep, that person was sleeping with another one. While you were crying every night, that person was going to sleep peacefully. While you waiting for that message, that ...

FACEBOOK POST  𝗛𝗘 𝗪𝗔𝗦 𝗡𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥 𝗚𝗢𝗡𝗡𝗔 𝗧𝗘𝗟𝗟 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗨𝗡𝗟𝗘𝗦𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗙𝗢𝗨𝗡𝗗 𝗢𝗨𝗧 There is a certain kind of pain that words cannot explain. It’s the loud silence of betrayal, the kind that makes your heart heavy even when you try to smile. You gave him your trust, every piece of it, but he was hiding…

FACEBOOK POST "I watched him treat someone else better than he ever treated me… and in that moment…….. I lost all interest. Not out of jealousy, but because I finally saw the truth —he was always capable of effort, of love, and respect. He just never chose to give it to me. And that realization?&...

FACEBOOK POST To the Other Parent Who Didn’t Show Up We made this child together. But I’ve been raising them alone. And I don’t mean just physically— I mean emotionally, mentally, spiritually. I’ve been the one answering the hard questions. The one staying up all night. The one crying behind clos...

FACEBOOK POST You Don’t Get to Use “I Provide” as a Weapon If he asked you to stay home… If he said, “I want you to raise the kids,” “It’s better if one of us is fully present,” “Don’t worry—I’ve got us”— Then no, he doesn’t get to turn around and use that as leverage.…

FACEBOOK POST "Just a friendly reminder: I give zero fucks about healing out loud. If hearing the truth about your family makes you uncomfortable, that’s your problem—not mine. Silence is what allowed the damage in the first place. So no, I won’t sugarcoat it, protect reputations, or stay quiet t...

FACEBOOK POST My therapist said to me today: “the truth will set you free” And she was referring to all of the secrets I’ve been keeping protecting “people. Letting my doubts and unanswered questions eat me alive with scenarios I create. But with asking the hard questions comes hearing the hard a...

FACEBOOK POST Let them be upset. Let them judge you. Let them misunderstand you. Let them gossip about you, Let them ignore you. Let them be "right." Let them doubt you. Let them not like you. Let them not speak to you. Let them run your name in the ground. Let them make you out…

FACEBOOK POST I’ve learned a lot these past few days - an important one is how fragile humans are. We have evolved into being able to love with our whole bodies - and the love we give and receive can literally affect our wellbeing. While we give our heart credit for the ability to love,…