#narcissist

After almost 20 years together, we are getting divorced.  It has been two weeks since this was decided. I started packing last weekend and am moving out next weekend (the 16th.) Tell me how he already has a girlfriend? Tell me how anyone would believe he was not speaking to her BEFORE we decided ...

FACEBOOK POST "I watched him treat someone else better than he ever treated me… and in that moment…….. I lost all interest. Not out of jealousy, but because I finally saw the truth —he was always capable of effort, of love, and respect. He just never chose to give it to me. And that realization?&...

Facebook memories can be a real bitch - but also truth telling and revealing. I had written this and saved it as a private entry on my Facebook on  5/31/2024. From its contents I can assume we had a fight the night/day prior, you had worn me down, and I wrote this - accepting all…

FACEBOOK POST You Don’t Get to Use “I Provide” as a Weapon If he asked you to stay home… If he said, “I want you to raise the kids,” “It’s better if one of us is fully present,” “Don’t worry—I’ve got us”— Then no, he doesn’t get to turn around and use that as leverage.…

FACEBOOK POST A narcissist will bleed you dry and then get mad when you have nothing left to give. They’ll steal from their own kids' future, spend every last dime on something stupidly expensive, and then act like you’re the bad guy for questioning their life choices. “But I needed the new car/b...

FACEBOOK POST I couldn’t have said it better…. HE WAS NEVER GONNA TELL YOU UNLESS YOU FOUND OUT. There is a certain kind of pain that words cannot explain. It’s the loud silence of betrayal, the kind that makes your heart heavy even when you try to smile. You gave him your trust, every piece…

FACEBOOK POST He was never going to tell you. You had to find out on your own. And that’s what hurts the most. Not the lie itself.. but the silence. The fact that he was willing to keep going like nothing ever happened. Smiling at you. Saying “I love you.” Letting you trust him, knowing…

Out of touch with my feelings I can't help it if I'm happy or sad Today I cried for no reason Made me feel like a psychopath I should hate you 'cause I love you You should hate yourself for treating me like that We both know you only love you Did you know they…

I feel like whenever there is infidelity the phrase "the grass is greener on the other side" comes into play. Because obviously when one partner strays, they are unhappy with what they have and are seeking better. They have the mindset that no matter what they have, someone else has better, someo...

You sent her this song.  Followed by a slew of messages talking about how you never wanted to leave her - she didn't want to let you go.  The last time you sent me a song.... I honestly can't remember, maybe never? I know you have come home to play something on YouTube, but to…