Some people think that it’s holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it’s letting go. –Unknown
For those of us who have already been through, or those of us just beginning the process, divorce brings upon us a whole host of experiences that may challenge our sense of self and the choices we have made in our lives. In this circle, we hope to provide support to each other as we share our unique perspectives.
For those of us who have already been through, or those of us just beginning the process, divorce brings upon us a whole host of experiences that may challenge our sense of self and the choices we have made in our lives. In this circle, we hope to provide support to each other as we share our unique perspectives.
Divorce Circle
He’s engaged
Why do I care? I don’t know exactly how this site works but I just want to get these thoughts out and maybe someone else has experienced this. I was married to my high school sweetheart for 19 years. He abused me for years but I stayed in some codependency state I suppose looking back…
Moving Forward, LP Edition
In my last entry, I mentioned my relationship and at that time I was working through projections. Things did get better momentarily. I have some pretty significant milestones coming up in the next 5 weeks: My birthday, turning 38 One year since I started dating One year since the Divorce was fina...
How do you know what the good feelings are if you don’t feel the bad ones?
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I process in pieces, broken ones.
My Iron Lobster is now a Spotify playlist too. 9 more days and the dissolution will be final, taking back my innocence, legally. I am keeping my married name for my daughter and because that is a lot of paperwork; Ill change it when I remarry. My Aunt has been away out of state, she…
I can’t keep doing it this way
The end of my marriage came suddenly on a January day in 2019. I can only explain it like those stories of a pet who for years sits at the train station or bus stop and waits for someone who never returns. Unlike the pet though, people aren't and never were interested in helping the…
Married young
This is my first entry ever. I’m hoping to just let it all out. I’m young, 26 and getting a divorce. To even be able to write it out is freaking me out. We were only married for 2 years, yet I feel so much pain.. I’m having trouble navigating through this time. I know…
Is She Really An Option?
Hi guys, I know many are asleep right now but this couldn't make me sleep, lost my wife mid last year and I'm still trying to keep up, but this my ex won't stop trying to fit in, and she once caused a little trouble between me and my wife when she was alive, and…
Inspired by “Many Pity Parties”
The old entries have been mostly restored... I think. It's always kind of painful to read things that were written long ago because after having done therapy weekly for almost a year I just see... coverups, lies, B.S. to try and appease. It's as if by writing something I will make myself believe ...
From ‘I do’ to ‘I don’t’
Together since December 2012. Married May 13, 2017. We've had problems for awhile. She won't communicate. I asked her if she wanted a divorce December 2018. She said yes. I moved out January 13, 2019, from the home we bought together in March 2018. She told me she was going to start the divorce p...