Fresh Wounds

*Previously written and shared to my Facebook three days after the affair was exposed* _________________________________________ Refuse to sleep on the couch and expect a warm spot in bed… Not when you had your arms around another woman less than a week ago. A remorseful man owns his mess. Lays i...

*Previously written and shared on my Facebook three days after the affair was exposed.* _______________________________________________________________ By now, it's probably obvious that there has been some form of infidelity within my relationship; I vowed to stay off Facebook, in part because I...

I feel like whenever there is infidelity the phrase "the grass is greener on the other side" comes into play. Because obviously when one partner strays, they are unhappy with what they have and are seeking better. They have the mindset that no matter what they have, someone else has better, someo...

They say time heals all wounds.... but what is the time frame? I feel like I am slowly moving forward, I can't wrap my head around the fact that its already been a month; 30 days have passed. I feel like you - you think things are fine. I honestly have felt like the night…

Why now? If you were relieved and it wasn’t anything more than FWB then why did you try and “save” things with her, continuing to lie about “us”, KNOWING she was coming forward.   If you 3 were being honest with each other and it was nothing more than FWB then why is her husband under…

Minutes have turned into hours......hours into days....days into a week.... Why - why is it so different this time. I know one "why"... Because it was so out of character for him. I had assumptions that there was infidelity, more so random one night hookups.  "Innocent", flirtatious, sexual bante...

"Where to begin?" I think the hardest thing about trying to understand and process the current is understanding the past year and a half....but with that involves explaining an entire two decades... And quite honestly I don't have the energy at the moment to dissect twenty years.. I'm sure there'...